There's a lot of pressure to go to prom, but without going into much detail, I don't have any people I would consider real friends to hang out with for the night. I dont think I will have an enjoyable time. Would not going be something that I would regret?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Prom
- Thread starter gza
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
dfb808 said:
just go to have fun and connect with your class and everyone is your friend just connect with people. if you some time read dale carnegie's how to win friends and influence people, and get comedy writinng secret.(friend pyschology and humor)
check out:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=143331
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i didnt go to no stinkin proms.
spend all that money and not have fun, blah!
no regrets dude , and im a silly woman!
spend all that money and not have fun, blah!
no regrets dude , and im a silly woman!
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Prom can be fun.. but from what you said it'll probably just be a waste of money. If you don't have a group to go with then.. yeah I wouldnt.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
franchise21
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 17, 2007
- Messages
- 37
- Reaction score
- 0
go with a freaking hot chick from a diff school...just as friends or w/e...becaseu then you will look liek a stud to all the people you DO know...thats my strategy