There's a lot of pressure to go to prom, but without going into much detail, I don't have any people I would consider real friends to hang out with for the night. I dont think I will have an enjoyable time. Would not going be something that I would regret?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Prom
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dfb808 said:
just go to have fun and connect with your class and everyone is your friend just connect with people. if you some time read dale carnegie's how to win friends and influence people, and get comedy writinng secret.(friend pyschology and humor)
check out:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=143331
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i didnt go to no stinkin proms.
spend all that money and not have fun, blah!
no regrets dude , and im a silly woman!
spend all that money and not have fun, blah!
no regrets dude , and im a silly woman!
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Prom can be fun.. but from what you said it'll probably just be a waste of money. If you don't have a group to go with then.. yeah I wouldnt.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
franchise21
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go with a freaking hot chick from a diff school...just as friends or w/e...becaseu then you will look liek a stud to all the people you DO know...thats my strategy