There's a lot of pressure to go to prom, but without going into much detail, I don't have any people I would consider real friends to hang out with for the night. I dont think I will have an enjoyable time. Would not going be something that I would regret?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Prom
- Thread starter gza
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dfb808 said:
just go to have fun and connect with your class and everyone is your friend just connect with people. if you some time read dale carnegie's how to win friends and influence people, and get comedy writinng secret.(friend pyschology and humor)
check out:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=143331
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i didnt go to no stinkin proms.
spend all that money and not have fun, blah!
no regrets dude , and im a silly woman!
spend all that money and not have fun, blah!
no regrets dude , and im a silly woman!
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Prom can be fun.. but from what you said it'll probably just be a waste of money. If you don't have a group to go with then.. yeah I wouldnt.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
franchise21
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go with a freaking hot chick from a diff school...just as friends or w/e...becaseu then you will look liek a stud to all the people you DO know...thats my strategy