"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Prom?

Eklipse

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So anyway im a junior and prom is coming up and i don't have an idea for a date. I have a few female friends but i really don't find them attractive at all and I don't want to spend all that money to go to prom with them. Also im in higher placement classes at school and there are absolutely no attractive girls or normal girls in my classes. So I'm not exactly sure what to do. Should I ask a random girl cuz that would be really akward or should i just try meeting random girls outside of school or something? Idk any advice
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Shocker

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I'm in a somewhat similar situation. I probably won't go at all because no matter how hard I try, I can't justify spending that money on a girl I don't want.
 

Kev07

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well for my jr prom, my date was just there so i could say i had a date, and for the picture.

once i got to prom, took pictures, danced with her a bit, and moved on to a bunch of other girls and did some group circle dancing/chanting with the boys
 

Eklipse

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So ur basically saying to get a date and ditch her? idk how well that would go over and i wouldn't think there would be many attractive girls goin there single to hang out with.
 

EdHunter

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I was in a similar situation last year...and so I asked out a sophomore girl I knew only a little bit, thinking I'd just get some social proof...and had a great time/went out w/ her for 9 mos...

The moral of the story is go for the underclassmen (or women, in this case).
1. They can't go unless an upperclassman asks them---shrinks chances of rejection.
2. They'll say yes---girls LIVE for stuff like prom (with the dresses and the drama and all that stuff).
3. It automatically puts you in the dominant position---you're older, you're in charge, you're in control---means that you can be a man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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guayaballer

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having problems here too man theres one grl i know but i hardly know so im going to have to build up some rapport and ask this week. oh and would it be a bad idea to ask some girl u meet in da mall but mb after 2 or 3 dates
 
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