"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Prom?

Eklipse

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So anyway im a junior and prom is coming up and i don't have an idea for a date. I have a few female friends but i really don't find them attractive at all and I don't want to spend all that money to go to prom with them. Also im in higher placement classes at school and there are absolutely no attractive girls or normal girls in my classes. So I'm not exactly sure what to do. Should I ask a random girl cuz that would be really akward or should i just try meeting random girls outside of school or something? Idk any advice
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Shocker

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I'm in a somewhat similar situation. I probably won't go at all because no matter how hard I try, I can't justify spending that money on a girl I don't want.
 

Kev07

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well for my jr prom, my date was just there so i could say i had a date, and for the picture.

once i got to prom, took pictures, danced with her a bit, and moved on to a bunch of other girls and did some group circle dancing/chanting with the boys
 

Eklipse

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So ur basically saying to get a date and ditch her? idk how well that would go over and i wouldn't think there would be many attractive girls goin there single to hang out with.
 

EdHunter

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I was in a similar situation last year...and so I asked out a sophomore girl I knew only a little bit, thinking I'd just get some social proof...and had a great time/went out w/ her for 9 mos...

The moral of the story is go for the underclassmen (or women, in this case).
1. They can't go unless an upperclassman asks them---shrinks chances of rejection.
2. They'll say yes---girls LIVE for stuff like prom (with the dresses and the drama and all that stuff).
3. It automatically puts you in the dominant position---you're older, you're in charge, you're in control---means that you can be a man.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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guayaballer

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having problems here too man theres one grl i know but i hardly know so im going to have to build up some rapport and ask this week. oh and would it be a bad idea to ask some girl u meet in da mall but mb after 2 or 3 dates
 
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