"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Prom?

Eklipse

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So anyway im a junior and prom is coming up and i don't have an idea for a date. I have a few female friends but i really don't find them attractive at all and I don't want to spend all that money to go to prom with them. Also im in higher placement classes at school and there are absolutely no attractive girls or normal girls in my classes. So I'm not exactly sure what to do. Should I ask a random girl cuz that would be really akward or should i just try meeting random girls outside of school or something? Idk any advice
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Shocker

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I'm in a somewhat similar situation. I probably won't go at all because no matter how hard I try, I can't justify spending that money on a girl I don't want.
 

Kev07

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well for my jr prom, my date was just there so i could say i had a date, and for the picture.

once i got to prom, took pictures, danced with her a bit, and moved on to a bunch of other girls and did some group circle dancing/chanting with the boys
 

Eklipse

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So ur basically saying to get a date and ditch her? idk how well that would go over and i wouldn't think there would be many attractive girls goin there single to hang out with.
 

EdHunter

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I was in a similar situation last year...and so I asked out a sophomore girl I knew only a little bit, thinking I'd just get some social proof...and had a great time/went out w/ her for 9 mos...

The moral of the story is go for the underclassmen (or women, in this case).
1. They can't go unless an upperclassman asks them---shrinks chances of rejection.
2. They'll say yes---girls LIVE for stuff like prom (with the dresses and the drama and all that stuff).
3. It automatically puts you in the dominant position---you're older, you're in charge, you're in control---means that you can be a man.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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guayaballer

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having problems here too man theres one grl i know but i hardly know so im going to have to build up some rapport and ask this week. oh and would it be a bad idea to ask some girl u meet in da mall but mb after 2 or 3 dates
 
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