"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Prom/Summer Soon ! PLEASE HELP!

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Hey, first off thank you for taking the time to read this, and please do not hezitate to post anytype of advice, all advice is very much appriciated. Here's the situation, I'm in the ninth grade and the prom is approaching quickly, 17 days until to be precise. 90% of my friends have beautiful, and very popular dates from the surronding schools (our school isn't a candy store if yeah know what i mean) I still do not have a date however. Nor does this breath taking girl that i'm very interested in. I'm not looking for a long-term relationship, I just would like to take her to prom very much so, and to have a "summer fling." Think you can help me out?

Thanks,
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oakraiderz2

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Dont be a puss and ask her.
 

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Just because you take someone dose not mean a thing bud trust me on this, you may even decide you want to go out with her a lot more who knows.
 

lazylawyer312

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Ask her before someone else does! You'll regret not asking her more than if she just says no to you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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YOU'LL NEVER KNOW WHAT WOULD HAPPEN BETWEEN YOU TWO, IF YOU DONT FIND OUT.
 

Maeisgood

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1) Ask her out right now.
2) Don't think about what you're doing just do it.
3) If she has fun with you, ask her to do other stuff later.
4) Don't think about asking her to do other stuff, just do it.
 

Craig Reeves

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Go up to her and say something like this...

"Hey, you don't have a date to the prom and I know we'd have a blast if went together. Afterall, it's just prom, it's certainly not like we're getting married or anything, so how about it?"

Say that to every "target".
 
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