"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Prom/Summer Soon ! PLEASE HELP!

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Hey, first off thank you for taking the time to read this, and please do not hezitate to post anytype of advice, all advice is very much appriciated. Here's the situation, I'm in the ninth grade and the prom is approaching quickly, 17 days until to be precise. 90% of my friends have beautiful, and very popular dates from the surronding schools (our school isn't a candy store if yeah know what i mean) I still do not have a date however. Nor does this breath taking girl that i'm very interested in. I'm not looking for a long-term relationship, I just would like to take her to prom very much so, and to have a "summer fling." Think you can help me out?

Thanks,
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dont be a puss and ask her.
 
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Just because you take someone dose not mean a thing bud trust me on this, you may even decide you want to go out with her a lot more who knows.
 
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Ask her before someone else does! You'll regret not asking her more than if she just says no to you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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YOU'LL NEVER KNOW WHAT WOULD HAPPEN BETWEEN YOU TWO, IF YOU DONT FIND OUT.
 
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Maeisgood

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1) Ask her out right now.
2) Don't think about what you're doing just do it.
3) If she has fun with you, ask her to do other stuff later.
4) Don't think about asking her to do other stuff, just do it.
 
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Craig Reeves

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Go up to her and say something like this...

"Hey, you don't have a date to the prom and I know we'd have a blast if went together. Afterall, it's just prom, it's certainly not like we're getting married or anything, so how about it?"

Say that to every "target".
 
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