"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Prom/Summer Soon ! PLEASE HELP!

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Hey, first off thank you for taking the time to read this, and please do not hezitate to post anytype of advice, all advice is very much appriciated. Here's the situation, I'm in the ninth grade and the prom is approaching quickly, 17 days until to be precise. 90% of my friends have beautiful, and very popular dates from the surronding schools (our school isn't a candy store if yeah know what i mean) I still do not have a date however. Nor does this breath taking girl that i'm very interested in. I'm not looking for a long-term relationship, I just would like to take her to prom very much so, and to have a "summer fling." Think you can help me out?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oakraiderz2

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Dont be a puss and ask her.
 
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Just because you take someone dose not mean a thing bud trust me on this, you may even decide you want to go out with her a lot more who knows.
 
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Ask her before someone else does! You'll regret not asking her more than if she just says no to you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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YOU'LL NEVER KNOW WHAT WOULD HAPPEN BETWEEN YOU TWO, IF YOU DONT FIND OUT.
 
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Maeisgood

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1) Ask her out right now.
2) Don't think about what you're doing just do it.
3) If she has fun with you, ask her to do other stuff later.
4) Don't think about asking her to do other stuff, just do it.
 
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Craig Reeves

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Go up to her and say something like this...

"Hey, you don't have a date to the prom and I know we'd have a blast if went together. Afterall, it's just prom, it's certainly not like we're getting married or anything, so how about it?"

Say that to every "target".
 
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