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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Prom Problems/ short

MacdaddyJr

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Okay, earlier this month my girlfriend and I broke up on mutual terms. Two months to prom. I have girls who are friends of mine who won't mind going but I prefer having an actually date. By the time spring break is over I will have little over a month left to find somebody. I don't know many people at this school and I'm wondering if it's just too late. I feel I like the girl needs to be my gf first instead of finding a random girl and asking her to the prom. I guess I could ask a sophmore being that I'm a senior but is it too late?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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gcrm92

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Who says you need a date? I'm going to senior prom by myself and I'm going to dance with other people's dates. But seriously, ask somone, even if it is an underclassman, you'll have a lot more fun. Yes you'd probably have more fun if you had a girlfriend to take to prom. But don't run around trying to find a girlfriend just so you can take her to prom, prom really isn't that big of a deal IMHO.
 

California Love

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Go with one of your girl friends. It'll be the best time you've ever had because not only can you talk to her, there will be no pressure and no expectations. Its so awesome being able to talk about life and anything else in a prom environment instead of desperately searching for some energetic topic.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by MacdaddyJr
I feel I like the girl needs to be my gf first instead of finding a random girl and asking her to the prom.
Wow that is really AFC. You are putting to much emphasis on having a girlfriend which is plain stupid.

If your a Don Juan you need to realize that having\desiring a girl friend is not being a Don Juan. A Don Juan is someone who can ask some random person to a dance, have fun and say **** it about everything else.

Prom isn't a big deal, go by yourself and dance with everyone, you'll have a lot more fun doing that anyways.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by California Love
Go with one of your girl friends. It'll be the best time you've ever had because not only can you talk to her, there will be no pressure and no expectations. Its so awesome being able to talk about life and anything else in a prom environment instead of desperately searching for some energetic topic.
Wow you must be a chick. Why doesn't he just castrate himself right now and call himself a woman. C'mon i mean seriously that is the most AFC(hick) solution i have every heard. He needs to grow some balls and have fun with chicks, not talk about life!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bogman2121

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i say just take one of your girl friends thats what im doing. i don't have a girlfriend and dont really care to have one (i wouldn't mind one but i just dont care enough) so im just taking a good friend who happens to be pretty hot, nothing sexual will happen, but it will be fun.
 
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