"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Prom Problems/ short

MacdaddyJr

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Okay, earlier this month my girlfriend and I broke up on mutual terms. Two months to prom. I have girls who are friends of mine who won't mind going but I prefer having an actually date. By the time spring break is over I will have little over a month left to find somebody. I don't know many people at this school and I'm wondering if it's just too late. I feel I like the girl needs to be my gf first instead of finding a random girl and asking her to the prom. I guess I could ask a sophmore being that I'm a senior but is it too late?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gcrm92

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Who says you need a date? I'm going to senior prom by myself and I'm going to dance with other people's dates. But seriously, ask somone, even if it is an underclassman, you'll have a lot more fun. Yes you'd probably have more fun if you had a girlfriend to take to prom. But don't run around trying to find a girlfriend just so you can take her to prom, prom really isn't that big of a deal IMHO.
 

California Love

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Go with one of your girl friends. It'll be the best time you've ever had because not only can you talk to her, there will be no pressure and no expectations. Its so awesome being able to talk about life and anything else in a prom environment instead of desperately searching for some energetic topic.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by MacdaddyJr
I feel I like the girl needs to be my gf first instead of finding a random girl and asking her to the prom.
Wow that is really AFC. You are putting to much emphasis on having a girlfriend which is plain stupid.

If your a Don Juan you need to realize that having\desiring a girl friend is not being a Don Juan. A Don Juan is someone who can ask some random person to a dance, have fun and say **** it about everything else.

Prom isn't a big deal, go by yourself and dance with everyone, you'll have a lot more fun doing that anyways.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by California Love
Go with one of your girl friends. It'll be the best time you've ever had because not only can you talk to her, there will be no pressure and no expectations. Its so awesome being able to talk about life and anything else in a prom environment instead of desperately searching for some energetic topic.
Wow you must be a chick. Why doesn't he just castrate himself right now and call himself a woman. C'mon i mean seriously that is the most AFC(hick) solution i have every heard. He needs to grow some balls and have fun with chicks, not talk about life!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bogman2121

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i say just take one of your girl friends thats what im doing. i don't have a girlfriend and dont really care to have one (i wouldn't mind one but i just dont care enough) so im just taking a good friend who happens to be pretty hot, nothing sexual will happen, but it will be fun.
 
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