"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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I asked a girl I fancied to prom a month ago, but she gave me a lame excuse...something about not being able to get a dress she liked.

Recently, I found out through her best friend that she is now going to prom, but I have not heard this from her, which pretty much sets in stone the fact that she rejected me (apparently she wants to go alone and w/o a date).

But I am past that.

The thing is, do you guys think asking her best friend to prom is a good idea? I know her best friend is looking for a date and is single.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bump. c'mon guys, this is kinda urgent. I am going out this evening.
 
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hahaha that would be the perfect thing to do to get back at that girl. it would be a slap in the face. definatley ask her friend to prom assuming shes higher than a 6/10
 
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yeah the original girl is a HB 8.5 or so, and her friend is a HB7. I'm not doing this with the intention of "getting back" at her, but really I want a date and I'm going to ask her friend because a lot of other girls are taken already.

I'm gonna ask and i'll let you guys know how it goes. :up: (unless there are any objections)
 
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Alright guys, I got back. This is how the convo went. We met at Starbucks:

Me: hey, you got here fast
Her: yeah...
Me: wow you seem really excited...(sarcasm)
Her: yeah..
chit chat chit chat for a few minutes
Me: so you wanna go to prom with me?
Her: um...well...
Me: well....
Her: basically I can't go with you because I'm already going with :blank: and I don't want to betray my friend.
Me: alright that's cool. I hope you have fun with :blank:.

then I went back to talking but it was awkward as hell...yea...

Strike 2 for me :(

I didn't ask who she was going with. She just said someone, and I didn't ask why it would mess things up with her friend, but you know, gotta cut my losses and move on right?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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that sucks man. sounds like she didnt want to go with u cause her friend didnt want to. NEXT them both. hopefully you can find someone who appreciates you more than those two *****es. keep looking man. stay up.
 
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alright, so should I still go to prom? I don't feel much like going anymore. What do yall think...I could use that 100 dollars for something else.
 
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