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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

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I asked a girl I fancied to prom a month ago, but she gave me a lame excuse...something about not being able to get a dress she liked.

Recently, I found out through her best friend that she is now going to prom, but I have not heard this from her, which pretty much sets in stone the fact that she rejected me (apparently she wants to go alone and w/o a date).

But I am past that.

The thing is, do you guys think asking her best friend to prom is a good idea? I know her best friend is looking for a date and is single.
 

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bump. c'mon guys, this is kinda urgent. I am going out this evening.
 
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hahaha that would be the perfect thing to do to get back at that girl. it would be a slap in the face. definatley ask her friend to prom assuming shes higher than a 6/10
 
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yeah the original girl is a HB 8.5 or so, and her friend is a HB7. I'm not doing this with the intention of "getting back" at her, but really I want a date and I'm going to ask her friend because a lot of other girls are taken already.

I'm gonna ask and i'll let you guys know how it goes. :up: (unless there are any objections)
 
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Alright guys, I got back. This is how the convo went. We met at Starbucks:

Me: hey, you got here fast
Her: yeah...
Me: wow you seem really excited...(sarcasm)
Her: yeah..
chit chat chit chat for a few minutes
Me: so you wanna go to prom with me?
Her: um...well...
Me: well....
Her: basically I can't go with you because I'm already going with :blank: and I don't want to betray my friend.
Me: alright that's cool. I hope you have fun with :blank:.

then I went back to talking but it was awkward as hell...yea...

Strike 2 for me :(

I didn't ask who she was going with. She just said someone, and I didn't ask why it would mess things up with her friend, but you know, gotta cut my losses and move on right?
 

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that sucks man. sounds like she didnt want to go with u cause her friend didnt want to. NEXT them both. hopefully you can find someone who appreciates you more than those two *****es. keep looking man. stay up.
 
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alright, so should I still go to prom? I don't feel much like going anymore. What do yall think...I could use that 100 dollars for something else.
 
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