goldenrocker91
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haha blacks dance so differnely from whites in my school. i swear my school dances are practically segregated with the black kids on one side and the whites on the other lol
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
***Prom Discussion '08***
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
haha yeah, but I don't think that will be a problem at my school. My school is the most diverse school in the district (only like 60% black, compared to 90% black at most schools).
But that doesn't change the fact that I can't dance
But that doesn't change the fact that I can't dance
goldenrocker91
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no way to change that witout practice.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
That's the way to goVice said:
How the hell am I supposed to practice though??
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
metalfan20
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I'm looking forward to Prom it's day before my Birthday I've already got for quite sometime now. My tux is getting altered because I've lost wieght. To be honest this is acaullty going to be my first real High School.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Will it be a problem that I've never before slow danced in my life?
No time to practice...way too busy in the next couple of weeks.
No time to practice...way too busy in the next couple of weeks.
goldenrocker91
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i doubt youll have a problem. slow dancing is easier then normal dancing. Just put you hands on her hips and take like little steps back and forth
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Thanksgoldenrocker91 said:
Let's just hope I don't step on her feet.
Colin O'Brien
Don Juan
My prom is on june 7th.. when's the earliest/latest I can ask someone to go with me?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
I think you can go ahead and ask now....make sure you ask at the latest in the first couple weeks of May.Colin O'Brien said:
franchise21
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my prom is tommorrow...im a sophomore and got elected head server which basically means i just get to be the first car and first people out....its like they elected me and this chick special priveliges to go...the BS part is the girl is ugly.....so im stuck with an ugly "sort of" date...whom i will take but really just leave once i get in...and what sucks is that other hot girls will haev dates from other towns who will be all over them...leaving me...all alone...how jewish is that?? oh well, at least i get to wear a tux and look like james bond...
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
How was your prom? What was it like?franchise21 said:
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
**** that. prom is a time to splurge a little.
take ya ***** out to a nice restaurant, show her a good time, and get some.
everyones caught up in "being a man" and not paying for **** but thats bull****.
its FUN to get a limo and party it up with your friends. get a big ass ground and split everything evenly.
last year we went to a 5 star restaurant, got a stretch navigator, AND i got a suit. ran me about 200 bucks myself for one of the best nights of my life.
take ya ***** out to a nice restaurant, show her a good time, and get some.
everyones caught up in "being a man" and not paying for **** but thats bull****.
its FUN to get a limo and party it up with your friends. get a big ass ground and split everything evenly.
last year we went to a 5 star restaurant, got a stretch navigator, AND i got a suit. ran me about 200 bucks myself for one of the best nights of my life.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
franchise21
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haha my prom was fun...i danced with some chicks and also got hypnotized... during my hypnosis the guy apparetnly asked me what im gonn ado after high school...i said college....he asked what i was gonna study...i said girls...haha
but anyways i apparently did some hilarious **** when i was hypnotized and now chicks are talking to me all the time...not the they didn't before but more so now since i was hypnotized
but anyways i apparently did some hilarious **** when i was hypnotized and now chicks are talking to me all the time...not the they didn't before but more so now since i was hypnotized
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
My prom is tomorrow. Any last minute advice?
Arizona iced tea
Don Juan
anyone know what a limo usually costs? the group i might go with is getting one for $700! theres 4 couples and that leaves me spending almost $200...
on the other hand i might rent a nice car and just drive myself and my gf.
so much money! i better get something good out of it
on the other hand i might rent a nice car and just drive myself and my gf.
so much money! i better get something good out of it
theborn_athlete
Don Juan
Well my prom is the 2nd Saturday into June and I've got a date, but I'm not happy about it.
My prom date is easily the hottest girl in the school. No questions asked. Doesn't matter who you ask; she's the one.
The pictures I get from prom would be HUGE social proof for University next year. Having 30 picks on facebook with an HB9 hanging off my neck would be awesome.
The problem?
She has a boyfriend.
Her boyfriend is 21 so obviously he isn't going to go to prom. Back in 2nd year we had a little thing and I promised her we would go to prom together. So here we are 2 years later and we were just discussing it the other day. Shes set on going with me. I know her boyfriend, he's a pushover and won't mind at all so that's not a problem.
The problem with going with her, is that it would be awkward. Are we friends or dates? Do we hold hands etc? It'd just be weird. Now I know that she isn't happy with her boyfriend, but knowing the guy I would feel like a scum bag hooking up with her. (Not that I wouldn't still do it) This whole situation is brutal because I can think of atleast 4 girls off the top of my head who would love to go with me and who I would definately hook up with. My oneitis has really been hinting at it over the last couple weeks, as well as one other girl that I have been seeing.
So guys what would you suggest I do about this situatioN?
My prom date is easily the hottest girl in the school. No questions asked. Doesn't matter who you ask; she's the one.
The pictures I get from prom would be HUGE social proof for University next year. Having 30 picks on facebook with an HB9 hanging off my neck would be awesome.
The problem?
She has a boyfriend.
Her boyfriend is 21 so obviously he isn't going to go to prom. Back in 2nd year we had a little thing and I promised her we would go to prom together. So here we are 2 years later and we were just discussing it the other day. Shes set on going with me. I know her boyfriend, he's a pushover and won't mind at all so that's not a problem.
The problem with going with her, is that it would be awkward. Are we friends or dates? Do we hold hands etc? It'd just be weird. Now I know that she isn't happy with her boyfriend, but knowing the guy I would feel like a scum bag hooking up with her. (Not that I wouldn't still do it
) This whole situation is brutal because I can think of atleast 4 girls off the top of my head who would love to go with me and who I would definately hook up with. My oneitis has really been hinting at it over the last couple weeks, as well as one other girl that I have been seeing.So guys what would you suggest I do about this situatioN?
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
theborn_athlete said:Well my prom is the 2nd Saturday into June and I've got a date, but I'm not happy about it.
My prom date is easily the hottest girl in the school. No questions asked. Doesn't matter who you ask; she's the one.
The pictures I get from prom would be HUGE social proof for University next year. Having 30 picks on facebook with an HB9 hanging off my neck would be awesome.
The problem?
She has a boyfriend.
Her boyfriend is 21 so obviously he isn't going to go to prom. Back in 2nd year we had a little thing and I promised her we would go to prom together. So here we are 2 years later and we were just discussing it the other day. Shes set on going with me. I know her boyfriend, he's a pushover and won't mind at all so that's not a problem.
The problem with going with her, is that it would be awkward. Are we friends or dates? Do we hold hands etc? It'd just be weird. Now I know that she isn't happy with her boyfriend, but knowing the guy I would feel like a scum bag hooking up with her. (Not that I wouldn't still do it
So guys what would you suggest I do about this situatioN?
Just go about your business as normal....hold her hand, put your arm around her, etc, and see how she takes it. If all is goo, then by all means continue. Treat her like your date because she IS your date. As for hooking up with her, just continue to read the signs throughout the night, and see what kind of frame she is in. Just be sure to be on top of YOUR game, and make sure to have fun.
And if she's not receptive to you, you can meet a hot single girl there
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.