goldenrocker91
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haha blacks dance so differnely from whites in my school. i swear my school dances are practically segregated with the black kids on one side and the whites on the other lol
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That's the way to goVice said:haha wow
I'm in High School and I never even THOUGHT of asking a girl out in a "cute" way, I was just planning on flat out asking
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Thanksgoldenrocker91 said:i doubt youll have a problem. slow dancing is easier then normal dancing. Just put you hands on her hips and take like little steps back and forth
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I think you can go ahead and ask now....make sure you ask at the latest in the first couple weeks of May.Colin O'Brien said:My prom is on june 7th.. when's the earliest/latest I can ask someone to go with me?
How was your prom? What was it like?franchise21 said:my prom is tommorrow...im a sophomore and got elected head server which basically means i just get to be the first car and first people out....its like they elected me and this chick special priveliges to go...the BS part is the girl is ugly.....so im stuck with an ugly "sort of" date...whom i will take but really just leave once i get in...and what sucks is that other hot girls will haev dates from other towns who will be all over them...leaving me...all alone...how jewish is that?? oh well, at least i get to wear a tux and look like james bond...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
theborn_athlete said:Well my prom is the 2nd Saturday into June and I've got a date, but I'm not happy about it.
My prom date is easily the hottest girl in the school. No questions asked. Doesn't matter who you ask; she's the one.
The pictures I get from prom would be HUGE social proof for University next year. Having 30 picks on facebook with an HB9 hanging off my neck would be awesome.
The problem?
She has a boyfriend.
Her boyfriend is 21 so obviously he isn't going to go to prom. Back in 2nd year we had a little thing and I promised her we would go to prom together. So here we are 2 years later and we were just discussing it the other day. Shes set on going with me. I know her boyfriend, he's a pushover and won't mind at all so that's not a problem.
The problem with going with her, is that it would be awkward. Are we friends or dates? Do we hold hands etc? It'd just be weird. Now I know that she isn't happy with her boyfriend, but knowing the guy I would feel like a scum bag hooking up with her. (Not that I wouldn't still do it) This whole situation is brutal because I can think of atleast 4 girls off the top of my head who would love to go with me and who I would definately hook up with. My oneitis has really been hinting at it over the last couple weeks, as well as one other girl that I have been seeing.
So guys what would you suggest I do about this situatioN?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.