Well, prom's tommorow and I'm going stag. DID have a date but apparently because I was acting uninterested in the girl, my friend made the wise decision of telling that girl I WASN'T interested, so now I don't have a date. But yeah, in a club/dancing environment, what's the best way to start dancing with a girl who DOESN'T have a date(I know there will be single chicks there who just came with their friends), would you ask them if they wanted to dance or would you just straight go up behind her and start dancing? I'd like to know this. Also in a dancing environment, do you REALLY have to know how to dance? I'd also like to know that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Prom/Dancing tips
- Thread starter ElStud
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I want to tell you how to dance, but girls at your age don't know how to dance anyway (some do, but I'm generalizing).
How you dance with girls depends on what impression you want to leave. In a casual environment I keep it casual. However I watched this guy and girl dance (they were not dating, the man's married, this is in a social club function) in such a way that I can only describe it as 'making love'.
But don't even consider that happening. Girls who are like what, 17, only know how to rock side to side and grind your cack.
How you dance with girls depends on what impression you want to leave. In a casual environment I keep it casual. However I watched this guy and girl dance (they were not dating, the man's married, this is in a social club function) in such a way that I can only describe it as 'making love'.
But don't even consider that happening. Girls who are like what, 17, only know how to rock side to side and grind your cack.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
LOL so true, some girl took me to her Winter Formal this past year and she couldn't dance for sh1t, along with every other couple I saw.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
I think you're gonna pretty much get the same thing from most people: Go with the flow. Which isn't all that helpful advice when you think about it, right? Too bad....my prom is in 3 hours!!!
3 hours? lol good luck, mines is tommorow.ARrocket said:I think you're gonna pretty much get the same thing from most people: Go with the flow. Which isn't all that helpful advice when you think about it, right? Too bad....my prom is in 3 hours!!!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Lishy
Senior Don Juan
Learn how to body pop!
Do some head spins and back spins and do the 'mantra' and you will have the girls drooling!
Ooooooooo and you could do the caterpillar, that would be so cool!
Or do a routine like Ross and Monica in friends!
Do some head spins and back spins and do the 'mantra' and you will have the girls drooling!
Ooooooooo and you could do the caterpillar, that would be so cool!
Or do a routine like Ross and Monica in friends!
Lishy
Senior Don Juan
There is nothing as hot as a guy in a tux doing the caterpiller to the bar!