Well, prom's tommorow and I'm going stag. DID have a date but apparently because I was acting uninterested in the girl, my friend made the wise decision of telling that girl I WASN'T interested, so now I don't have a date. But yeah, in a club/dancing environment, what's the best way to start dancing with a girl who DOESN'T have a date(I know there will be single chicks there who just came with their friends), would you ask them if they wanted to dance or would you just straight go up behind her and start dancing? I'd like to know this. Also in a dancing environment, do you REALLY have to know how to dance? I'd also like to know that.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Prom/Dancing tips
- Thread starter ElStud
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I want to tell you how to dance, but girls at your age don't know how to dance anyway (some do, but I'm generalizing).
How you dance with girls depends on what impression you want to leave. In a casual environment I keep it casual. However I watched this guy and girl dance (they were not dating, the man's married, this is in a social club function) in such a way that I can only describe it as 'making love'.
But don't even consider that happening. Girls who are like what, 17, only know how to rock side to side and grind your cack.
How you dance with girls depends on what impression you want to leave. In a casual environment I keep it casual. However I watched this guy and girl dance (they were not dating, the man's married, this is in a social club function) in such a way that I can only describe it as 'making love'.
But don't even consider that happening. Girls who are like what, 17, only know how to rock side to side and grind your cack.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
LOL so true, some girl took me to her Winter Formal this past year and she couldn't dance for sh1t, along with every other couple I saw.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
I think you're gonna pretty much get the same thing from most people: Go with the flow. Which isn't all that helpful advice when you think about it, right? Too bad....my prom is in 3 hours!!!
3 hours? lol good luck, mines is tommorow.ARrocket said:I think you're gonna pretty much get the same thing from most people: Go with the flow. Which isn't all that helpful advice when you think about it, right? Too bad....my prom is in 3 hours!!!
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Lishy
Senior Don Juan
Learn how to body pop!
Do some head spins and back spins and do the 'mantra' and you will have the girls drooling!
Ooooooooo and you could do the caterpillar, that would be so cool!
Or do a routine like Ross and Monica in friends!
Do some head spins and back spins and do the 'mantra' and you will have the girls drooling!
Ooooooooo and you could do the caterpillar, that would be so cool!
Or do a routine like Ross and Monica in friends!
Lishy
Senior Don Juan
There is nothing as hot as a guy in a tux doing the caterpiller to the bar!