Well, prom's tommorow and I'm going stag. DID have a date but apparently because I was acting uninterested in the girl, my friend made the wise decision of telling that girl I WASN'T interested, so now I don't have a date. But yeah, in a club/dancing environment, what's the best way to start dancing with a girl who DOESN'T have a date(I know there will be single chicks there who just came with their friends), would you ask them if they wanted to dance or would you just straight go up behind her and start dancing? I'd like to know this. Also in a dancing environment, do you REALLY have to know how to dance? I'd also like to know that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Prom/Dancing tips
- Thread starter ElStud
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I want to tell you how to dance, but girls at your age don't know how to dance anyway (some do, but I'm generalizing).
How you dance with girls depends on what impression you want to leave. In a casual environment I keep it casual. However I watched this guy and girl dance (they were not dating, the man's married, this is in a social club function) in such a way that I can only describe it as 'making love'.
But don't even consider that happening. Girls who are like what, 17, only know how to rock side to side and grind your cack.
How you dance with girls depends on what impression you want to leave. In a casual environment I keep it casual. However I watched this guy and girl dance (they were not dating, the man's married, this is in a social club function) in such a way that I can only describe it as 'making love'.
But don't even consider that happening. Girls who are like what, 17, only know how to rock side to side and grind your cack.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
LOL so true, some girl took me to her Winter Formal this past year and she couldn't dance for sh1t, along with every other couple I saw.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
I think you're gonna pretty much get the same thing from most people: Go with the flow. Which isn't all that helpful advice when you think about it, right? Too bad....my prom is in 3 hours!!!
3 hours? lol good luck, mines is tommorow.ARrocket said:I think you're gonna pretty much get the same thing from most people: Go with the flow. Which isn't all that helpful advice when you think about it, right? Too bad....my prom is in 3 hours!!!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Lishy
Senior Don Juan
Learn how to body pop!
Do some head spins and back spins and do the 'mantra' and you will have the girls drooling!
Ooooooooo and you could do the caterpillar, that would be so cool!
Or do a routine like Ross and Monica in friends!
Do some head spins and back spins and do the 'mantra' and you will have the girls drooling!
Ooooooooo and you could do the caterpillar, that would be so cool!
Or do a routine like Ross and Monica in friends!
Lishy
Senior Don Juan
There is nothing as hot as a guy in a tux doing the caterpiller to the bar!