"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Prom/Dancing tips

ElStud

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Well, prom's tommorow and I'm going stag. DID have a date but apparently because I was acting uninterested in the girl, my friend made the wise decision of telling that girl I WASN'T interested, so now I don't have a date. But yeah, in a club/dancing environment, what's the best way to start dancing with a girl who DOESN'T have a date(I know there will be single chicks there who just came with their friends), would you ask them if they wanted to dance or would you just straight go up behind her and start dancing? I'd like to know this. Also in a dancing environment, do you REALLY have to know how to dance? I'd also like to know that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PeeGee

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I want to tell you how to dance, but girls at your age don't know how to dance anyway (some do, but I'm generalizing).

How you dance with girls depends on what impression you want to leave. In a casual environment I keep it casual. However I watched this guy and girl dance (they were not dating, the man's married, this is in a social club function) in such a way that I can only describe it as 'making love'.

But don't even consider that happening. Girls who are like what, 17, only know how to rock side to side and grind your cack.
 

War Against Betaism

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LOL so true, some girl took me to her Winter Formal this past year and she couldn't dance for sh1t, along with every other couple I saw.
 

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I think you're gonna pretty much get the same thing from most people: Go with the flow. Which isn't all that helpful advice when you think about it, right? Too bad....my prom is in 3 hours!!!
 

ElStud

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ARrocket said:
I think you're gonna pretty much get the same thing from most people: Go with the flow. Which isn't all that helpful advice when you think about it, right? Too bad....my prom is in 3 hours!!!
3 hours? lol good luck, mines is tommorow.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lishy

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Learn how to body pop!

Do some head spins and back spins and do the 'mantra' and you will have the girls drooling!

Ooooooooo and you could do the caterpillar, that would be so cool!

Or do a routine like Ross and Monica in friends!
 
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