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Prom , asked to early. Need help explaining

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I asked a girl to prom 2 1/2 months before it. When I first asked and a month later she was into me , but then we could not talk and she got a BF and it seems she is losing interest in me and is gona bail at the last minute.(or just go to it like a chore to be nice)

I'm going to tell her that I dont want to go to prom with her becuase of the interest drop and her new BF and go with another girl who wants to date me and go to prom becuase she is more interested with me and I like her too.

How can I explain this in the best possible way? Considering I asked her and the prom is less then a month away.

Should I talk to her alone or in class?


I'm bad at explaining things.
 

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thats why you don't ask 2 1/2 months early
 

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..........yeah ,thanks for the bump.
 

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DDevil said:
I asked a girl to prom 2 1/2 months before it. When I first asked and a month later she was into me , but then we could not talk and she got a BF and it seems she is losing interest in me and is gona bail at the last minute.(or just go to it like a chore to be nice)
Do you really give a sh*t if she has a boyfriend? I don't, I'll stab his ass with a spork. Go, have fun, try to get some ass./

I'm going to tell her that I dont want to go to prom with her becuase of the interest drop and her new BF and go with another girl who wants to date me and go to prom becuase she is more interested with me and I like her too.
Then go ahead, but ask her BEFORE you tell the other girl you don't wanna go. Cuz that way, you might not have a date at all. Hoes down, G's up.
 

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doesnt matter just tell her what you think, remember a DJ isnt a desperate person. By the way dont go and beat up his BF, that will just make other girls think you are desperate
 

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She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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im with acdc...never quit a job unless you've already got interviews for new ones. secure the date and tell her "sorry, but i wanna go with another girl"...dont even mention the fact that SHE has a boyfriend and SHE is less interested now. you wanted to go with another girl and you guys havent talked lately, so your going with another girl.
 

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Why not just ask if she's comfortable going with you or wether she can go with her boyfriend and you can explore other avenues.
 
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