"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Prom , asked to early. Need help explaining

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I asked a girl to prom 2 1/2 months before it. When I first asked and a month later she was into me , but then we could not talk and she got a BF and it seems she is losing interest in me and is gona bail at the last minute.(or just go to it like a chore to be nice)

I'm going to tell her that I dont want to go to prom with her becuase of the interest drop and her new BF and go with another girl who wants to date me and go to prom becuase she is more interested with me and I like her too.

How can I explain this in the best possible way? Considering I asked her and the prom is less then a month away.

Should I talk to her alone or in class?


I'm bad at explaining things.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LaDanian Tomlinson

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thats why you don't ask 2 1/2 months early
 
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..........yeah ,thanks for the bump.
 
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DDevil said:
I asked a girl to prom 2 1/2 months before it. When I first asked and a month later she was into me , but then we could not talk and she got a BF and it seems she is losing interest in me and is gona bail at the last minute.(or just go to it like a chore to be nice)
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Do you really give a sh*t if she has a boyfriend? I don't, I'll stab his ass with a spork. Go, have fun, try to get some ass./

I'm going to tell her that I dont want to go to prom with her becuase of the interest drop and her new BF and go with another girl who wants to date me and go to prom becuase she is more interested with me and I like her too.
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Then go ahead, but ask her BEFORE you tell the other girl you don't wanna go. Cuz that way, you might not have a date at all. Hoes down, G's up.
 
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doesnt matter just tell her what you think, remember a DJ isnt a desperate person. By the way dont go and beat up his BF, that will just make other girls think you are desperate
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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im with acdc...never quit a job unless you've already got interviews for new ones. secure the date and tell her "sorry, but i wanna go with another girl"...dont even mention the fact that SHE has a boyfriend and SHE is less interested now. you wanted to go with another girl and you guys havent talked lately, so your going with another girl.
 
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Why not just ask if she's comfortable going with you or wether she can go with her boyfriend and you can explore other avenues.
 
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