soothsayerac
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hey everyone!
I'm hoping to get some advice on my situation.
I've know / dated this girl for about 8 months. she has always told me things about her past boyfriends, and things she likes and dislikes. I seem to have trouble telling the difference between things she says. an example would be.. she says she doesn't like when guys compliment her. I thought she wouldn't appreciate me doing so either.. but recently I told her why I don't give her many.. she said it's cool if it's from someone she likes ..
at the beginning, she would her pull me close and seem affectionate .. I kissed her about 3weeks of knowing her. she said she was elated from it the next day. she also says she doesn't always feel like hugging or kissing. That has made me iffy about going for another kiss. it could just be me over thinking her words about not feeling in a hugging mood or whatever, but she still initiates hugs, and grabs my hand sometimes.
I got a kiss a week ago, but can't tell when she would be cool with me going for more lol.
She is always working because she started her own business and has a quota.
I guess a mistake I made was to offer to help her or go along with her while she works. I figured it was a good way to spend time with her without taking away from her main goal, which is to be successful and progress with her work.
I don't like to give anyone that much control, but I have dated many women and her good qualities and potential makes dropping her and moving on feel like a dumb move.
when we are asked how long we have been together, she responds we are friends, but has told me we are dating.
Do I have to propose to her to seem commited enough to be her bf?
I'm hoping to get some advice on my situation.
I've know / dated this girl for about 8 months. she has always told me things about her past boyfriends, and things she likes and dislikes. I seem to have trouble telling the difference between things she says. an example would be.. she says she doesn't like when guys compliment her. I thought she wouldn't appreciate me doing so either.. but recently I told her why I don't give her many.. she said it's cool if it's from someone she likes ..
at the beginning, she would her pull me close and seem affectionate .. I kissed her about 3weeks of knowing her. she said she was elated from it the next day. she also says she doesn't always feel like hugging or kissing. That has made me iffy about going for another kiss. it could just be me over thinking her words about not feeling in a hugging mood or whatever, but she still initiates hugs, and grabs my hand sometimes.
I got a kiss a week ago, but can't tell when she would be cool with me going for more lol.
She is always working because she started her own business and has a quota.
I guess a mistake I made was to offer to help her or go along with her while she works. I figured it was a good way to spend time with her without taking away from her main goal, which is to be successful and progress with her work.
I don't like to give anyone that much control, but I have dated many women and her good qualities and potential makes dropping her and moving on feel like a dumb move.
when we are asked how long we have been together, she responds we are friends, but has told me we are dating.
Do I have to propose to her to seem commited enough to be her bf?