"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Problems with fantasy image of women

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I was a late developer when it came to women so my teen years were spent looking at girls in magazines.

Something that amazes me is just how much real life girls enhance their looks cosmetically. Often I can find myself thinking a girl is hot, going out with her a few times, and then one day I see her without make-up or looking rough..and my interest level just crashes. Even when they do themselves up again, it's not the same.

The other thing is clothes. I like girls in dresses and skirts. So when a girl is wearing baggy trousers or something completely unsexy, I just lose interest.

I've even had girls say stuff to me like "I can tell you only want to touch me when I have make-up on"

How can I get over this mental block?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ration your Wanks and any old grandma will begin to turn you on
 
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ive been exactly where you are.

you must get in touch with your natural desires.

no more porn/magazines. no more wanking.

your mind is trapped in an unrealistic environment.

just like how girls dont see you as being equivalent to george clooney or brad pitt... even the genuine great catches arent gonna be "perfect." as long as your mind is accustomed to victoria secret models, you will always be dissapointed.

when you embrace and understand that, this problem will be solved.

-slb
 
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viking22 said:
I was a late developer when it came to women so my teen years were spent looking at girls in magazines.

Something that amazes me is just how much real life girls enhance their looks cosmetically. Often I can find myself thinking a girl is hot, going out with her a few times, and then one day I see her without make-up or looking rough..and my interest level just crashes. Even when they do themselves up again, it's not the same.

The other thing is clothes. I like girls in dresses and skirts. So when a girl is wearing baggy trousers or something completely unsexy, I just lose interest.

I've even had girls say stuff to me like "I can tell you only want to touch me when I have make-up on"

How can I get over this mental block?
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too much porn is why.
 
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