Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Problems with fantasy image of women

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viking22

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I was a late developer when it came to women so my teen years were spent looking at girls in magazines.

Something that amazes me is just how much real life girls enhance their looks cosmetically. Often I can find myself thinking a girl is hot, going out with her a few times, and then one day I see her without make-up or looking rough..and my interest level just crashes. Even when they do themselves up again, it's not the same.

The other thing is clothes. I like girls in dresses and skirts. So when a girl is wearing baggy trousers or something completely unsexy, I just lose interest.

I've even had girls say stuff to me like "I can tell you only want to touch me when I have make-up on"

How can I get over this mental block?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ration your Wanks and any old grandma will begin to turn you on
 
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ive been exactly where you are.

you must get in touch with your natural desires.

no more porn/magazines. no more wanking.

your mind is trapped in an unrealistic environment.

just like how girls dont see you as being equivalent to george clooney or brad pitt... even the genuine great catches arent gonna be "perfect." as long as your mind is accustomed to victoria secret models, you will always be dissapointed.

when you embrace and understand that, this problem will be solved.

-slb
 
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viking22 said:
I was a late developer when it came to women so my teen years were spent looking at girls in magazines.

Something that amazes me is just how much real life girls enhance their looks cosmetically. Often I can find myself thinking a girl is hot, going out with her a few times, and then one day I see her without make-up or looking rough..and my interest level just crashes. Even when they do themselves up again, it's not the same.

The other thing is clothes. I like girls in dresses and skirts. So when a girl is wearing baggy trousers or something completely unsexy, I just lose interest.

I've even had girls say stuff to me like "I can tell you only want to touch me when I have make-up on"

How can I get over this mental block?
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too much porn is why.
 
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