"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Problems with fantasy image of women

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I was a late developer when it came to women so my teen years were spent looking at girls in magazines.

Something that amazes me is just how much real life girls enhance their looks cosmetically. Often I can find myself thinking a girl is hot, going out with her a few times, and then one day I see her without make-up or looking rough..and my interest level just crashes. Even when they do themselves up again, it's not the same.

The other thing is clothes. I like girls in dresses and skirts. So when a girl is wearing baggy trousers or something completely unsexy, I just lose interest.

I've even had girls say stuff to me like "I can tell you only want to touch me when I have make-up on"

How can I get over this mental block?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ration your Wanks and any old grandma will begin to turn you on
 
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ive been exactly where you are.

you must get in touch with your natural desires.

no more porn/magazines. no more wanking.

your mind is trapped in an unrealistic environment.

just like how girls dont see you as being equivalent to george clooney or brad pitt... even the genuine great catches arent gonna be "perfect." as long as your mind is accustomed to victoria secret models, you will always be dissapointed.

when you embrace and understand that, this problem will be solved.

-slb
 
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viking22 said:
I was a late developer when it came to women so my teen years were spent looking at girls in magazines.

Something that amazes me is just how much real life girls enhance their looks cosmetically. Often I can find myself thinking a girl is hot, going out with her a few times, and then one day I see her without make-up or looking rough..and my interest level just crashes. Even when they do themselves up again, it's not the same.

The other thing is clothes. I like girls in dresses and skirts. So when a girl is wearing baggy trousers or something completely unsexy, I just lose interest.

I've even had girls say stuff to me like "I can tell you only want to touch me when I have make-up on"

How can I get over this mental block?
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too much porn is why.
 
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