"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Problems with fantasy image of women

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viking22

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I was a late developer when it came to women so my teen years were spent looking at girls in magazines.

Something that amazes me is just how much real life girls enhance their looks cosmetically. Often I can find myself thinking a girl is hot, going out with her a few times, and then one day I see her without make-up or looking rough..and my interest level just crashes. Even when they do themselves up again, it's not the same.

The other thing is clothes. I like girls in dresses and skirts. So when a girl is wearing baggy trousers or something completely unsexy, I just lose interest.

I've even had girls say stuff to me like "I can tell you only want to touch me when I have make-up on"

How can I get over this mental block?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ration your Wanks and any old grandma will begin to turn you on
 
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ive been exactly where you are.

you must get in touch with your natural desires.

no more porn/magazines. no more wanking.

your mind is trapped in an unrealistic environment.

just like how girls dont see you as being equivalent to george clooney or brad pitt... even the genuine great catches arent gonna be "perfect." as long as your mind is accustomed to victoria secret models, you will always be dissapointed.

when you embrace and understand that, this problem will be solved.

-slb
 
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viking22 said:
I was a late developer when it came to women so my teen years were spent looking at girls in magazines.

Something that amazes me is just how much real life girls enhance their looks cosmetically. Often I can find myself thinking a girl is hot, going out with her a few times, and then one day I see her without make-up or looking rough..and my interest level just crashes. Even when they do themselves up again, it's not the same.

The other thing is clothes. I like girls in dresses and skirts. So when a girl is wearing baggy trousers or something completely unsexy, I just lose interest.

I've even had girls say stuff to me like "I can tell you only want to touch me when I have make-up on"

How can I get over this mental block?
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too much porn is why.
 
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