"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So i've been dating this girl for around 3 months now and I've never been able to make her orgasm. I'm pretty sure i'm 100% at getting girls to finish, during relationships, but haven't been able to do it after countless times now with her. I always attempt to be receptive and aware of any signs she puts out of which moves to make. I've briefly mentioned how surprised that i couldn't get her to finish a couple times but tonight she claims she has never come before, ever. She's 23 and been with lots of guys before me. I asked her before if she's had a history of molestation or rape and she hasn't. She doesn't seem to be in any pain and seems to be enjoying herself during the act. I've asked her if she masturbates and she said she does from time to time, but still never is able to finish.

Any ideas or input on this?

Dave
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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some girls need to be 100% comfortable in order to orgasm. she needs to feel much more than just physical stimulation. at the beginning try as much foreplay as you can. touch her everywhere, kiss her in new places like her neck, stomach, legs, everywhere.

try to set the mood, dim the lights. some girls are self conscious so turning off the lights may help. and when you're banging her, give her compliments, but be specific. you can't just say you have great tits, but try to use bigger, more descriptive words that focus on one part of her body. just try to make her feel amazing.

and try to persuade her to touch herself while you're going at it. a lot of girls can do it themselves, but when you're going at it and she's touching herself and the same time, she might be able to orgasm faster and easier.
 
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Dear DJ,
What about putting your age up?....Yours is a common phenomena,it can crop up up any time in a relationship....my philosophy is that getting them to open their legs is a good start,getting them to enjoy can be asking too much...seriously,she is just entertainment value,you can't improve a Woman like that,but in the absense of anything better,it's any port in a storm.
 
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Scaramouche said:
Dear DJ,
seriously,she is just entertainment value,you can't improve a Woman like that,but in the absense of anything better,it's any port in a storm.
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Can you explain that a little further?

Dave
 
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foomee said:
some girls need to be 100% comfortable in order to orgasm. she needs to feel much more than just physical stimulation. at the beginning try as much foreplay as you can. touch her everywhere, kiss her in new places like her neck, stomach, legs, everywhere.

try to set the mood, dim the lights. some girls are self conscious so turning off the lights may help. and when you're banging her, give her compliments, but be specific. you can't just say you have great tits, but try to use bigger, more descriptive words that focus on one part of her body. just try to make her feel amazing.

and try to persuade her to touch herself while you're going at it. a lot of girls can do it themselves, but when you're going at it and she's touching herself and the same time, she might be able to orgasm faster and easier.
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Will try to improve on setting the mood, i've done the candles thing early on but will keep trying, same thing with the emotional stimulation.

Dave
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJ#7436 said:
I asked her before if she's had a history of molestation or rape and she hasn't.
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You are definitely a smooth talker...:confused:
 
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