"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJ#7436

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So i've been dating this girl for around 3 months now and I've never been able to make her orgasm. I'm pretty sure i'm 100% at getting girls to finish, during relationships, but haven't been able to do it after countless times now with her. I always attempt to be receptive and aware of any signs she puts out of which moves to make. I've briefly mentioned how surprised that i couldn't get her to finish a couple times but tonight she claims she has never come before, ever. She's 23 and been with lots of guys before me. I asked her before if she's had a history of molestation or rape and she hasn't. She doesn't seem to be in any pain and seems to be enjoying herself during the act. I've asked her if she masturbates and she said she does from time to time, but still never is able to finish.

Any ideas or input on this?

Dave
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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foomee

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some girls need to be 100% comfortable in order to orgasm. she needs to feel much more than just physical stimulation. at the beginning try as much foreplay as you can. touch her everywhere, kiss her in new places like her neck, stomach, legs, everywhere.

try to set the mood, dim the lights. some girls are self conscious so turning off the lights may help. and when you're banging her, give her compliments, but be specific. you can't just say you have great tits, but try to use bigger, more descriptive words that focus on one part of her body. just try to make her feel amazing.

and try to persuade her to touch herself while you're going at it. a lot of girls can do it themselves, but when you're going at it and she's touching herself and the same time, she might be able to orgasm faster and easier.
 
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Dear DJ,
What about putting your age up?....Yours is a common phenomena,it can crop up up any time in a relationship....my philosophy is that getting them to open their legs is a good start,getting them to enjoy can be asking too much...seriously,she is just entertainment value,you can't improve a Woman like that,but in the absense of anything better,it's any port in a storm.
 
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Scaramouche said:
Dear DJ,
seriously,she is just entertainment value,you can't improve a Woman like that,but in the absense of anything better,it's any port in a storm.
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Can you explain that a little further?

Dave
 
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foomee said:
some girls need to be 100% comfortable in order to orgasm. she needs to feel much more than just physical stimulation. at the beginning try as much foreplay as you can. touch her everywhere, kiss her in new places like her neck, stomach, legs, everywhere.

try to set the mood, dim the lights. some girls are self conscious so turning off the lights may help. and when you're banging her, give her compliments, but be specific. you can't just say you have great tits, but try to use bigger, more descriptive words that focus on one part of her body. just try to make her feel amazing.

and try to persuade her to touch herself while you're going at it. a lot of girls can do it themselves, but when you're going at it and she's touching herself and the same time, she might be able to orgasm faster and easier.
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Will try to improve on setting the mood, i've done the candles thing early on but will keep trying, same thing with the emotional stimulation.

Dave
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ#7436 said:
I asked her before if she's had a history of molestation or rape and she hasn't.
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You are definitely a smooth talker...:confused:
 
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