"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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problem with talking ?? :(

floydtheater07

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Originally posted by sportf190
alright so like if im in the club i can start it off by saying like hey wut do u think of this music and stuff liek that ... arlight thanks.... and u also had the problem how much has ur game improved when u fixed it just wondering?
Yeah, that is a great example of something to say.


My game has improved incredibly. One thing I also like to do is find out about a girl I am interested in before I talk to her. if she has an online journal, read it a bit. Get to know about her, and then when talking to her, mention things that might interest her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sportf190

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oo alright thanks alot man cause like frist u know it was confidence b ut i finally got that so now takling then i think ill start doin better thanks alot man!
 

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Originally posted by sportf190
thanks gusy but like another problem is if i dont talk alot then the conversation on aim goes no where... i will start off usually like hey wuts up hows ur day... wut r u doin tonight... that kinda stuff then it will usually end cause i have nothin to say and i dont wanna talk alot so i dont udnerstand how to not talk alot like people keep tellin me i do have a my space it is right here.....


http://www.myspace.com/john19
dont be afraid to let aim convos die. and remember to space out ur replies...dont reply immediatley.
 
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sportf190

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ooo alright thanks alot guys can any of you give me ur screennames just so its easier if u dont mind helpin me out thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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