"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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problem with talking ?? :(

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Originally posted by sportf190
alright so like if im in the club i can start it off by saying like hey wut do u think of this music and stuff liek that ... arlight thanks.... and u also had the problem how much has ur game improved when u fixed it just wondering?
Yeah, that is a great example of something to say.


My game has improved incredibly. One thing I also like to do is find out about a girl I am interested in before I talk to her. if she has an online journal, read it a bit. Get to know about her, and then when talking to her, mention things that might interest her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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sportf190

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oo alright thanks alot man cause like frist u know it was confidence b ut i finally got that so now takling then i think ill start doin better thanks alot man!
 

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Originally posted by sportf190
thanks gusy but like another problem is if i dont talk alot then the conversation on aim goes no where... i will start off usually like hey wuts up hows ur day... wut r u doin tonight... that kinda stuff then it will usually end cause i have nothin to say and i dont wanna talk alot so i dont udnerstand how to not talk alot like people keep tellin me i do have a my space it is right here.....


http://www.myspace.com/john19
dont be afraid to let aim convos die. and remember to space out ur replies...dont reply immediatley.
 
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sportf190

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ooo alright thanks alot guys can any of you give me ur screennames just so its easier if u dont mind helpin me out thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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