"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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problem with talking ?? :(

floydtheater07

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Originally posted by sportf190
alright so like if im in the club i can start it off by saying like hey wut do u think of this music and stuff liek that ... arlight thanks.... and u also had the problem how much has ur game improved when u fixed it just wondering?
Yeah, that is a great example of something to say.


My game has improved incredibly. One thing I also like to do is find out about a girl I am interested in before I talk to her. if she has an online journal, read it a bit. Get to know about her, and then when talking to her, mention things that might interest her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sportf190

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oo alright thanks alot man cause like frist u know it was confidence b ut i finally got that so now takling then i think ill start doin better thanks alot man!
 

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Originally posted by sportf190
thanks gusy but like another problem is if i dont talk alot then the conversation on aim goes no where... i will start off usually like hey wuts up hows ur day... wut r u doin tonight... that kinda stuff then it will usually end cause i have nothin to say and i dont wanna talk alot so i dont udnerstand how to not talk alot like people keep tellin me i do have a my space it is right here.....


http://www.myspace.com/john19
dont be afraid to let aim convos die. and remember to space out ur replies...dont reply immediatley.
 
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sportf190

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ooo alright thanks alot guys can any of you give me ur screennames just so its easier if u dont mind helpin me out thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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