"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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problem with talking ?? :(

floydtheater07

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Originally posted by sportf190
alright so like if im in the club i can start it off by saying like hey wut do u think of this music and stuff liek that ... arlight thanks.... and u also had the problem how much has ur game improved when u fixed it just wondering?
Yeah, that is a great example of something to say.


My game has improved incredibly. One thing I also like to do is find out about a girl I am interested in before I talk to her. if she has an online journal, read it a bit. Get to know about her, and then when talking to her, mention things that might interest her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sportf190

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oo alright thanks alot man cause like frist u know it was confidence b ut i finally got that so now takling then i think ill start doin better thanks alot man!
 

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Originally posted by sportf190
thanks gusy but like another problem is if i dont talk alot then the conversation on aim goes no where... i will start off usually like hey wuts up hows ur day... wut r u doin tonight... that kinda stuff then it will usually end cause i have nothin to say and i dont wanna talk alot so i dont udnerstand how to not talk alot like people keep tellin me i do have a my space it is right here.....


http://www.myspace.com/john19
dont be afraid to let aim convos die. and remember to space out ur replies...dont reply immediatley.
 
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sportf190

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ooo alright thanks alot guys can any of you give me ur screennames just so its easier if u dont mind helpin me out thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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