"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Problem with sneakers

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Here's the story...

Last Christmas, I received a pair of awesome sneakers from my parents. I was thrilled with these shoes and apperantly so was everyone else. It became impossible for me to go out without someone being baffled by these shoes. Girls seem to be especially fond of them and always approach me. There have been several occasions where it is obvious they are less interested in the shoes than the boy that's wearing them.

The trouble is, I can't muster a decent response to 'ohmygod those shoes are amazing' and wind up saying something stupid like 'thanks' and I let the chance slip through my fingers.

What should I do next time some hottie inevitably compliments my kicks?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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chubbycheeks720

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There are lots of ways, it depends on how you want to be perceived by other people.

If you want to be C&F go with a ****y comment like "thanks, they looked good on the site but they looked even better on me, but then again what doesn't?"

If you want to come off as friendly funny, someone all the girls can talk to.
"thanks, do you want to touch them?" - "How bout a picture?"

There's lots of ways to respond and different responses get different reactions, of course. It all depends on how you want other people to see you.
 
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Tekniq

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Chill out hypebeast, and just say thank you, cut all the crap because if you are receiving compliments then they are obviously interested in some aspect. I like collecting dunks as well, but i guess i am used to the "omg awesome shoes"
 

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I appreciate the help guys, but I don't think I made it clear in the first post I was looking for a response that would initiate conversation.

Often I do say 'thanks' and we part ways because I have nothing else to offer. I need a proper segway into an actual conversation.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh, I love it when I can start a conversation on sneakers. It's easy to get a girls attention(they all love shoes) and it feels very natural for me to talk about. Read up on sneakers, find out whats special about your sneakers(if there is anything special about them that is)

It is hard however to start a conversation based on simply "Nice shoes!"
But a typical response for me could be "Thanks, there part of adidas's new consortium collection" if they wanna know more I have a conversation going on just that, if not then oh well I still got complimented on my shoes ;)

Chubbycheeks's responses could also work pretty well. You gotta judge it when the situation comes, if you see that the girls are wearing flashy sneakers they are probably interested in talking about it. If not, chubbys replies can be pretty nice "openers".
 

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you can say "thanks" thats completely fine. I do it sometimes when a girl compliments me. The thing you want to do is thread into a DHV story, neg her or shoot sh*t.

tell a story about how you got these shoes

neg her about her clothing. Most girls these days wear the brand names like hollister or abercrombie, so its easy.

Her: nice shoes
You: (canned joke)
Her: haha
You: I like your abercrombie jacket, yea i saw the same jacket 10 times when i was walking to class today, that must be a nice jacket.

shoot sh*t. Talk about what clothes she likes while making negs or jokes.

situations differ so she might not be wearing a jacket or have the same brand.
so you have to analyze the situation and think fast, but as you get better it will come naturally. I dont even think about it and i already have a canned neg or joke coming out of my mouth.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tell them "thanks. Can you help me with something? I'm trying to come up with another style for Chris Brown to rip off of me. Got any ideas on what would look good?"

Start a conversation and show that you read stuff.
 

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Number9 said:
They're gold supra skytops.
Can you say Hypebeast?
Might as well get yourself a pair of tiffany dunks and get it over with, or a pair of paris lows, personally i am quite fond of the channel zero customs, and all the **** by methamphibian.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tekniq said:
Can you say Hypebeast?
Might as well get yourself a pair of tiffany dunks and get it over with, or a pair of paris lows, personally i am quite fond of the channel zero customs, and all the **** by methamphibian.
why do you keep on pushing this whole "hypebeast" b.s.?

It's not even helping the guy.

But Kudos to you for using the word you most recently found on urbandictionary.com
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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