"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Problem with sneakers

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Here's the story...

Last Christmas, I received a pair of awesome sneakers from my parents. I was thrilled with these shoes and apperantly so was everyone else. It became impossible for me to go out without someone being baffled by these shoes. Girls seem to be especially fond of them and always approach me. There have been several occasions where it is obvious they are less interested in the shoes than the boy that's wearing them.

The trouble is, I can't muster a decent response to 'ohmygod those shoes are amazing' and wind up saying something stupid like 'thanks' and I let the chance slip through my fingers.

What should I do next time some hottie inevitably compliments my kicks?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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chubbycheeks720

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There are lots of ways, it depends on how you want to be perceived by other people.

If you want to be C&F go with a ****y comment like "thanks, they looked good on the site but they looked even better on me, but then again what doesn't?"

If you want to come off as friendly funny, someone all the girls can talk to.
"thanks, do you want to touch them?" - "How bout a picture?"

There's lots of ways to respond and different responses get different reactions, of course. It all depends on how you want other people to see you.
 
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Tekniq

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Chill out hypebeast, and just say thank you, cut all the crap because if you are receiving compliments then they are obviously interested in some aspect. I like collecting dunks as well, but i guess i am used to the "omg awesome shoes"
 

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I appreciate the help guys, but I don't think I made it clear in the first post I was looking for a response that would initiate conversation.

Often I do say 'thanks' and we part ways because I have nothing else to offer. I need a proper segway into an actual conversation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh, I love it when I can start a conversation on sneakers. It's easy to get a girls attention(they all love shoes) and it feels very natural for me to talk about. Read up on sneakers, find out whats special about your sneakers(if there is anything special about them that is)

It is hard however to start a conversation based on simply "Nice shoes!"
But a typical response for me could be "Thanks, there part of adidas's new consortium collection" if they wanna know more I have a conversation going on just that, if not then oh well I still got complimented on my shoes ;)

Chubbycheeks's responses could also work pretty well. You gotta judge it when the situation comes, if you see that the girls are wearing flashy sneakers they are probably interested in talking about it. If not, chubbys replies can be pretty nice "openers".
 

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you can say "thanks" thats completely fine. I do it sometimes when a girl compliments me. The thing you want to do is thread into a DHV story, neg her or shoot sh*t.

tell a story about how you got these shoes

neg her about her clothing. Most girls these days wear the brand names like hollister or abercrombie, so its easy.

Her: nice shoes
You: (canned joke)
Her: haha
You: I like your abercrombie jacket, yea i saw the same jacket 10 times when i was walking to class today, that must be a nice jacket.

shoot sh*t. Talk about what clothes she likes while making negs or jokes.

situations differ so she might not be wearing a jacket or have the same brand.
so you have to analyze the situation and think fast, but as you get better it will come naturally. I dont even think about it and i already have a canned neg or joke coming out of my mouth.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheVirtualMind

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Tell them "thanks. Can you help me with something? I'm trying to come up with another style for Chris Brown to rip off of me. Got any ideas on what would look good?"

Start a conversation and show that you read stuff.
 

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Number9 said:
They're gold supra skytops.
Can you say Hypebeast?
Might as well get yourself a pair of tiffany dunks and get it over with, or a pair of paris lows, personally i am quite fond of the channel zero customs, and all the **** by methamphibian.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HTownLunatic

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Tekniq said:
Can you say Hypebeast?
Might as well get yourself a pair of tiffany dunks and get it over with, or a pair of paris lows, personally i am quite fond of the channel zero customs, and all the **** by methamphibian.
why do you keep on pushing this whole "hypebeast" b.s.?

It's not even helping the guy.

But Kudos to you for using the word you most recently found on urbandictionary.com
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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