"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Problem with doing power squats.

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After coming back from a hamstring injury, i'll be prepared to hit the gym again. Yay. I then realise that i've got a problem with the power squat technique. Now for all those who do squats, everyone knows that your back must be arch when you go down. Meaning ) instead of (.

<back> ) <front> = the arch while
<back> ( <front> = to roundback, which is wrong.

I tend to become roundback while going down halfway, and it really pisses me off. My upper back is fine, but my lower back doesnt arch anymore. It arch ******ds in a concave fashion and will result in injuries in the long run. I've tried to put my butt and chest out but this problem is still bugging me. Are there any advise on how to do power squats properly?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lower the weight a bit. Can you use proper form with less weight? No weight?
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Lower the weight a bit. Can you use proper form with less weight? No weight?
Sad to say, but i cant use proper form even with no weight. Any other advise?

To hope7: I do do strecthing before every gym session, but thanks for reminding me.
 

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'll agree with the flexibility issue. Start stretching those hams.
 

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Sorry, but how does stretching my hamstrings get rid of my roundback problem? I just cant see the link.
 
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