"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Problem with doing power squats.

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After coming back from a hamstring injury, i'll be prepared to hit the gym again. Yay. I then realise that i've got a problem with the power squat technique. Now for all those who do squats, everyone knows that your back must be arch when you go down. Meaning ) instead of (.

<back> ) <front> = the arch while
<back> ( <front> = to roundback, which is wrong.

I tend to become roundback while going down halfway, and it really pisses me off. My upper back is fine, but my lower back doesnt arch anymore. It arch ******ds in a concave fashion and will result in injuries in the long run. I've tried to put my butt and chest out but this problem is still bugging me. Are there any advise on how to do power squats properly?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lower the weight a bit. Can you use proper form with less weight? No weight?
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Lower the weight a bit. Can you use proper form with less weight? No weight?
Sad to say, but i cant use proper form even with no weight. Any other advise?

To hope7: I do do strecthing before every gym session, but thanks for reminding me.
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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donjuanjovi

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I'll agree with the flexibility issue. Start stretching those hams.
 

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Sorry, but how does stretching my hamstrings get rid of my roundback problem? I just cant see the link.
 
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