"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Problem with doing power squats.

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After coming back from a hamstring injury, i'll be prepared to hit the gym again. Yay. I then realise that i've got a problem with the power squat technique. Now for all those who do squats, everyone knows that your back must be arch when you go down. Meaning ) instead of (.

<back> ) <front> = the arch while
<back> ( <front> = to roundback, which is wrong.

I tend to become roundback while going down halfway, and it really pisses me off. My upper back is fine, but my lower back doesnt arch anymore. It arch ******ds in a concave fashion and will result in injuries in the long run. I've tried to put my butt and chest out but this problem is still bugging me. Are there any advise on how to do power squats properly?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lower the weight a bit. Can you use proper form with less weight? No weight?
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Lower the weight a bit. Can you use proper form with less weight? No weight?
Sad to say, but i cant use proper form even with no weight. Any other advise?

To hope7: I do do strecthing before every gym session, but thanks for reminding me.
 

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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donjuanjovi

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I'll agree with the flexibility issue. Start stretching those hams.
 

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Sorry, but how does stretching my hamstrings get rid of my roundback problem? I just cant see the link.
 
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