"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Problem with a few friends. (male not female)

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Hey guys, new member here. Haven't really been in the game for very long however would like to see how far this 'thing' takes me.

My question is this: My friend, who has very little knowledge of 'whats going on' has game but only seems to use it when there are signs of trouble (ie, he may not get the girl and has to compete with other guys, but I think he may be a bit of a wuss) however, the girl/girls he often hangs out with are quite hot. I want to game the girls but I am a loyal companion and don't want to out-game my friend (which I'm confident to say, he doesn't stand a chance against me ;p) Anyway, what should I do in this situation?


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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General man law is if he met her first, he gets the first shot. If he's introduces you to a group of chicks ask him which one he's after and move on a different one. If there's only one, ask him his intentions.

If you met the girl(s) first and he's with you, it's your lead. He can have the scaps.
 
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What about the friend, you can't just phase him out in hope that he'll just get lost.

Are you saying competition is better than friendship?
 
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MacDiddy said:
Absolute BS... May the best man win... Mother Nature wants it that way. She will want it that way...
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That's great if you're trying to get laid and don't want to keep your friends.

If it's a guy you don't know, by all means kick his ass out of the picture. Between my friends and I there is an understanding that if you're the one to do the initial approach or met the women first, it's you who gets first choice.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Word, thanks for the advice guys.

Sorry to keep the thread going, but this leads into my next area of questions/problems.

So for some reason, I have this dire need to game all the woman (who are good looking of course) in my vicinity. So, instead of cold approaches/going out to places alone, what would be a good way to meet/attract new girls (it doesn't have to be with this particular friend).

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BacardiGuy said:
That's great if you're trying to get laid and don't want to keep your friends..
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Obviously $hit like this needs to be done with a certain finesse. You don't go in on your high horse and sweep the chick from out and under. Its attrition and the weaker guy will back away. No man can claim a chick on first sight.

If you want to maintain friendships, don't introduce your babes to him.
 
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