"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Problem with a few friends. (male not female)

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Hey guys, new member here. Haven't really been in the game for very long however would like to see how far this 'thing' takes me.

My question is this: My friend, who has very little knowledge of 'whats going on' has game but only seems to use it when there are signs of trouble (ie, he may not get the girl and has to compete with other guys, but I think he may be a bit of a wuss) however, the girl/girls he often hangs out with are quite hot. I want to game the girls but I am a loyal companion and don't want to out-game my friend (which I'm confident to say, he doesn't stand a chance against me ;p) Anyway, what should I do in this situation?


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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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General man law is if he met her first, he gets the first shot. If he's introduces you to a group of chicks ask him which one he's after and move on a different one. If there's only one, ask him his intentions.

If you met the girl(s) first and he's with you, it's your lead. He can have the scaps.
 
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What about the friend, you can't just phase him out in hope that he'll just get lost.

Are you saying competition is better than friendship?
 
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MacDiddy said:
Absolute BS... May the best man win... Mother Nature wants it that way. She will want it that way...
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That's great if you're trying to get laid and don't want to keep your friends.

If it's a guy you don't know, by all means kick his ass out of the picture. Between my friends and I there is an understanding that if you're the one to do the initial approach or met the women first, it's you who gets first choice.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Word, thanks for the advice guys.

Sorry to keep the thread going, but this leads into my next area of questions/problems.

So for some reason, I have this dire need to game all the woman (who are good looking of course) in my vicinity. So, instead of cold approaches/going out to places alone, what would be a good way to meet/attract new girls (it doesn't have to be with this particular friend).

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BacardiGuy said:
That's great if you're trying to get laid and don't want to keep your friends..
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Obviously $hit like this needs to be done with a certain finesse. You don't go in on your high horse and sweep the chick from out and under. Its attrition and the weaker guy will back away. No man can claim a chick on first sight.

If you want to maintain friendships, don't introduce your babes to him.
 
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