"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Problem with a few friends. (male not female)

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Hey guys, new member here. Haven't really been in the game for very long however would like to see how far this 'thing' takes me.

My question is this: My friend, who has very little knowledge of 'whats going on' has game but only seems to use it when there are signs of trouble (ie, he may not get the girl and has to compete with other guys, but I think he may be a bit of a wuss) however, the girl/girls he often hangs out with are quite hot. I want to game the girls but I am a loyal companion and don't want to out-game my friend (which I'm confident to say, he doesn't stand a chance against me ;p) Anyway, what should I do in this situation?


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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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General man law is if he met her first, he gets the first shot. If he's introduces you to a group of chicks ask him which one he's after and move on a different one. If there's only one, ask him his intentions.

If you met the girl(s) first and he's with you, it's your lead. He can have the scaps.
 

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What about the friend, you can't just phase him out in hope that he'll just get lost.

Are you saying competition is better than friendship?
 

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MacDiddy said:
Absolute BS... May the best man win... Mother Nature wants it that way. She will want it that way...
That's great if you're trying to get laid and don't want to keep your friends.

If it's a guy you don't know, by all means kick his ass out of the picture. Between my friends and I there is an understanding that if you're the one to do the initial approach or met the women first, it's you who gets first choice.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Word, thanks for the advice guys.

Sorry to keep the thread going, but this leads into my next area of questions/problems.

So for some reason, I have this dire need to game all the woman (who are good looking of course) in my vicinity. So, instead of cold approaches/going out to places alone, what would be a good way to meet/attract new girls (it doesn't have to be with this particular friend).

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BacardiGuy said:
That's great if you're trying to get laid and don't want to keep your friends..
Obviously $hit like this needs to be done with a certain finesse. You don't go in on your high horse and sweep the chick from out and under. Its attrition and the weaker guy will back away. No man can claim a chick on first sight.

If you want to maintain friendships, don't introduce your babes to him.
 
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