"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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please tell me where that's from?
I did read those in this thread and it sounds like these women pity Harry.
He is capable of getting so much, he can gain women on this pity alone.

Doesn't the glow wear off of 'new father syndrome' once the youngest child is past the age of seven?

We may see Harry revive himself then.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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please tell me where that's from?
I did read those in this thread and it sounds like these women pity Harry.
He is capable of getting so much, he can gain women on this pity alone.

Doesn't the glow wear off of 'new father syndrome' once the youngest child is past the age of seven?

We may see Harry revive himself then.
He's in Hollywood though. I might not know better but I don't feel like he will have a lot of support there. Other males will be secretly hoping that "he loses" and giving bad energy. I believe Megan will get "good energy" there, and they will carrot dangle some minor acting roles for her.

There were hundreds of similar comments from women worried about Harry. Those particular ones were from facebook.
 

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He's in Hollywood though. I might not know better but I don't feel like he will have a lot of support there. Other males will be secretly hoping that "he loses" and giving bad energy. I believe Megan will get "good energy" there, and they will carrot dangle some minor acting roles for her.

There were hundreds of similar comments from women worried about Harry. Those particular ones were from facebook.
oh ok.

Well.
Tyler Perry is reachable and I'm sure a letter or card of encouragement may eventually reach Harry through Tyler while they're still staying there.

Just saying that these world leader types and celebrity types would probably be pleased to receive a kind letter or positive card encouraging them to read The Rational Male and join this site for example. Seriously.
 

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oh ok.

Well.
Tyler Perry is reachable and I'm sure a letter or card of encouragement may eventually reach Harry through Tyler while they're still staying there.

Just saying that these world leader types and celebrity types would probably be pleased to receive a kind letter or positive card encouraging them to read The Rational Male and join this site for example. Seriously.
If any one of us reached out they'd think "who are they", probably have us investigated and not take the comments seriously. Besides Tyler Perry is in the "frat" of Megan not Harry, Hollywood.

Harry has enough people advising him. All I was saying is this is a great example for young men around the world, to learn what NOT to do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yes, I see that now
I see that now too, and I wasn't trying to see things like that. If we reached out to one of those actors or celebrities it's Very possible some "harm" or disruption can come our way too. Maybe you won't be hurt, but maybe some of his fans in your area can disturb you.
 

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hmm, funny how that works out.
I think about that evil eye thing you and a few others taught me about 2 months ago.
I think about it every day at least once and it helps me hold my tongue. Just to be on the safe side.
You know what I mean. I'm selfregulating my verbal communication daily now.
I support and appreciate SoSuave for this reason and many others.
Thank you guys hey, I mean it.
 

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I don't at all feel bad for him, he had every opportunity to find a prime british girl yet he chose some 30+ year old divorced American.

I don't understand it
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you are relationship oriented then strive for the left picture.
The ultimate in game contrary to what the dumbasses tell you.

Maintaining the rooster while in an LTR is the highest level. It means your life is moving foward and you are still fun and excite her and she is also growing.

Healthy marriage can be the ultimate reward. Culture has tightened the rules of the game.
We make choices. The right lady wants you to have that. So there is no gaming her to get her to behave that way.
 

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If you are relationship oriented then strive for the left picture.
The ultimate in game contrary to what the dumbasses tell you.

Maintaining the rooster while in an LTR is the highest level. It means your life is moving foward and you are still fun and excite her and she is also growing.

Healthy marriage can be the ultimate reward. Culture has tightened the rules of the game.
The married man CAN look like the strong and full of vitality ROOSTER if his WIFE wants to see him in that way. Pretty simple. Some less intelligent women are more emotionally driven, and can't help themselves, but an intelligent woman is intentional and treats her man a certain way for a reason.
 

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There's a Coming to America sequel in the works. I wonder if this is what happened to Akeem after taking an American bride? We'll find out.
Explosive prosperity and abundance of life due to her full treatment.
 

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There's a Coming to America sequel in the works. I wonder if this is what happened to Akeem after taking an American bride? We'll find out.
She will shut him down and control him and it's "good for her". She starts sleeping around then disrespecting him badly.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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