"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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please tell me where that's from?
I did read those in this thread and it sounds like these women pity Harry.
He is capable of getting so much, he can gain women on this pity alone.

Doesn't the glow wear off of 'new father syndrome' once the youngest child is past the age of seven?

We may see Harry revive himself then.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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please tell me where that's from?
I did read those in this thread and it sounds like these women pity Harry.
He is capable of getting so much, he can gain women on this pity alone.

Doesn't the glow wear off of 'new father syndrome' once the youngest child is past the age of seven?

We may see Harry revive himself then.
He's in Hollywood though. I might not know better but I don't feel like he will have a lot of support there. Other males will be secretly hoping that "he loses" and giving bad energy. I believe Megan will get "good energy" there, and they will carrot dangle some minor acting roles for her.

There were hundreds of similar comments from women worried about Harry. Those particular ones were from facebook.
 

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He's in Hollywood though. I might not know better but I don't feel like he will have a lot of support there. Other males will be secretly hoping that "he loses" and giving bad energy. I believe Megan will get "good energy" there, and they will carrot dangle some minor acting roles for her.

There were hundreds of similar comments from women worried about Harry. Those particular ones were from facebook.
oh ok.

Well.
Tyler Perry is reachable and I'm sure a letter or card of encouragement may eventually reach Harry through Tyler while they're still staying there.

Just saying that these world leader types and celebrity types would probably be pleased to receive a kind letter or positive card encouraging them to read The Rational Male and join this site for example. Seriously.
 

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oh ok.

Well.
Tyler Perry is reachable and I'm sure a letter or card of encouragement may eventually reach Harry through Tyler while they're still staying there.

Just saying that these world leader types and celebrity types would probably be pleased to receive a kind letter or positive card encouraging them to read The Rational Male and join this site for example. Seriously.
If any one of us reached out they'd think "who are they", probably have us investigated and not take the comments seriously. Besides Tyler Perry is in the "frat" of Megan not Harry, Hollywood.

Harry has enough people advising him. All I was saying is this is a great example for young men around the world, to learn what NOT to do.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yes, I see that now
I see that now too, and I wasn't trying to see things like that. If we reached out to one of those actors or celebrities it's Very possible some "harm" or disruption can come our way too. Maybe you won't be hurt, but maybe some of his fans in your area can disturb you.
 

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hmm, funny how that works out.
I think about that evil eye thing you and a few others taught me about 2 months ago.
I think about it every day at least once and it helps me hold my tongue. Just to be on the safe side.
You know what I mean. I'm selfregulating my verbal communication daily now.
I support and appreciate SoSuave for this reason and many others.
Thank you guys hey, I mean it.
 

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I don't at all feel bad for him, he had every opportunity to find a prime british girl yet he chose some 30+ year old divorced American.

I don't understand it
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you are relationship oriented then strive for the left picture.
The ultimate in game contrary to what the dumbasses tell you.

Maintaining the rooster while in an LTR is the highest level. It means your life is moving foward and you are still fun and excite her and she is also growing.

Healthy marriage can be the ultimate reward. Culture has tightened the rules of the game.
We make choices. The right lady wants you to have that. So there is no gaming her to get her to behave that way.
 

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If you are relationship oriented then strive for the left picture.
The ultimate in game contrary to what the dumbasses tell you.

Maintaining the rooster while in an LTR is the highest level. It means your life is moving foward and you are still fun and excite her and she is also growing.

Healthy marriage can be the ultimate reward. Culture has tightened the rules of the game.
The married man CAN look like the strong and full of vitality ROOSTER if his WIFE wants to see him in that way. Pretty simple. Some less intelligent women are more emotionally driven, and can't help themselves, but an intelligent woman is intentional and treats her man a certain way for a reason.
 

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There's a Coming to America sequel in the works. I wonder if this is what happened to Akeem after taking an American bride? We'll find out.
Explosive prosperity and abundance of life due to her full treatment.
 

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There's a Coming to America sequel in the works. I wonder if this is what happened to Akeem after taking an American bride? We'll find out.
She will shut him down and control him and it's "good for her". She starts sleeping around then disrespecting him badly.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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