PREFACE: About a month ago, things came to an end, because she met someone else -- slept with her one last time. Probably went... 5/6 days without talking to her this past week (due to new interest, texting someone)
We ended up having a conversation last night and found out that the reason she invited me over was due to being 'lonely' but said that she didn't want to sleep with two guys at once and that "this felt like this right thing to do" in terms of finding someone with mutual interests. She told me that we'd never work out/could never date.
So I asked about the new guy and she was like "It's good but, it's just... I want to avoid relationships as a whole" -- she said that if she could she'd just sleep around. Then she said "Believe me, if I had it my way, you'd be over here right now and we'd be sleeping together still" -- this new guy had been asking her to dinner with his parents, etc -- and she's already saying "No, I don't want that" -- seems to me this guy attempting to rush a bit.
I mentioned that I started seeing someone and she seemed genuinely happily surprised (like a happy shocked), wanted to know all about her but told her "I'm not going to tell you anything more about her" (I've been seeing someone and went out with her last night) then changed the topic.
We ended up talking to 2:30, about life in general and such, it was a legit conversation and felt pretty genuine, but I'm thinking of the plate theory, while this other gentleman is trying to push heavily into the relationship 'theatrics' it seems she's not having it slightly and seems to be gravitating back my way, as in something new isn't probably as exciting as the something old -- more so now that I've found someone, women tend to have a 'sixth sense' knowing that you're either about to move on or are moving on.
Remember that Coach Corey Wayne says women are like cats, they lose interest and then wander the neighborhood, but forget about them and they tend to come back.
We ended up having a conversation last night and found out that the reason she invited me over was due to being 'lonely' but said that she didn't want to sleep with two guys at once and that "this felt like this right thing to do" in terms of finding someone with mutual interests. She told me that we'd never work out/could never date.
So I asked about the new guy and she was like "It's good but, it's just... I want to avoid relationships as a whole" -- she said that if she could she'd just sleep around. Then she said "Believe me, if I had it my way, you'd be over here right now and we'd be sleeping together still" -- this new guy had been asking her to dinner with his parents, etc -- and she's already saying "No, I don't want that" -- seems to me this guy attempting to rush a bit.
I mentioned that I started seeing someone and she seemed genuinely happily surprised (like a happy shocked), wanted to know all about her but told her "I'm not going to tell you anything more about her" (I've been seeing someone and went out with her last night) then changed the topic.
We ended up talking to 2:30, about life in general and such, it was a legit conversation and felt pretty genuine, but I'm thinking of the plate theory, while this other gentleman is trying to push heavily into the relationship 'theatrics' it seems she's not having it slightly and seems to be gravitating back my way, as in something new isn't probably as exciting as the something old -- more so now that I've found someone, women tend to have a 'sixth sense' knowing that you're either about to move on or are moving on.
Remember that Coach Corey Wayne says women are like cats, they lose interest and then wander the neighborhood, but forget about them and they tend to come back.
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