"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Let us talk about looks.

Looks certainly help you to get noticed....


That is it, gentlemen. This is the only point that good looks give you, remember that game is not about looks, it is about the character. If you are an uneducated lad who has no enthusiastic drive, no ambition in life YOU HAVE NO GAME. You could be the most beautiful guy out there and bore people to death with monotone speech and self-centered stories.

Be humble, don't look too good - you are not a girl.

Keep yourself in shape, this will teach you to have discipline. Don't get shredded just because you want to please the ladies because self-esteem is built on internal beliefs and not external values.

Respect yourself, be happy with the looks you have. BE THE MAN YOU ARE and leave pretty faces to girls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Looks certainly help confidence though. And confidence is everything.
 

Yo'Mama

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Yeah this is the difference between what looks mean for guys and what looks mean for girls. If a girl is hot she would have to do something totally f*cking stupid or have some horrible personality trait, habit, etc to put a guy off. The hotness would likely trumps everything.

If you're a good looking guy it will get your foot in the door, but by itself being good looking will rarely be enough to seal the deal.
 

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A lot of guys seem to forget that swagger and attitude are a major part of attraction for women. I always laugh when I see threads insisting that you need to start dressing like this and wearing your hair like that because if you don't have the attitude to back it up then you're just wasting your time and money.

In the last couple years I've had much more success with women than before and I hardly changed a thing about my appearance. What I changed most is how I talk to women and how I carry myself around them.
 

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Zerro said:
A lot of guys seem to forget that swagger and attitude are a major part of attraction for women. I always laugh when I see threads insisting that you need to start dressing like this and wearing your hair like that because if you don't have the attitude to back it up then you're just wasting your time and money.

In the last couple years I've had much more success with women than before and I hardly changed a thing about my appearance. What I changed most is how I talk to women and how I carry myself around them.
How did you do that though? Think it's easier to change what you say, etc but seems like changing your overall demeanour would be hard. I mean posture, body language, etc. All that non verbal communication stuff.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I pretty much dress like a bro. Hoodies, sports tees, cargo shorts or jeans, shell toe sneaks, white hat, and sunglasses. I'm a very weird dude in my natural state, dressing more conventional helps alot.

The way I dress has never made or broken my ability to get laid. I am, however, about a 5 or 6 in looks. With some personality and the ability to talk and flatter I can regularly score. If you are ugly, dressing up a bit more preppy or even a suit would help immensely.
 

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iwanttofight said:
What is the difference between swagger and attitude?
The way I see it:
  • Attitude is something that can be separate of body language. You can have the same attitude whether you are in front of the person, talking to them on the phone, texting them, or posting here on the internet. It doesn't require physical presence.
  • Swagger is all about physical presence as it is mostly body language.

Feel free to differ.
 
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