“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Let us talk about looks.

Looks certainly help you to get noticed....


That is it, gentlemen. This is the only point that good looks give you, remember that game is not about looks, it is about the character. If you are an uneducated lad who has no enthusiastic drive, no ambition in life YOU HAVE NO GAME. You could be the most beautiful guy out there and bore people to death with monotone speech and self-centered stories.

Be humble, don't look too good - you are not a girl.

Keep yourself in shape, this will teach you to have discipline. Don't get shredded just because you want to please the ladies because self-esteem is built on internal beliefs and not external values.

Respect yourself, be happy with the looks you have. BE THE MAN YOU ARE and leave pretty faces to girls.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dutchmaster

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Looks certainly help confidence though. And confidence is everything.
 

Yo'Mama

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Yeah this is the difference between what looks mean for guys and what looks mean for girls. If a girl is hot she would have to do something totally f*cking stupid or have some horrible personality trait, habit, etc to put a guy off. The hotness would likely trumps everything.

If you're a good looking guy it will get your foot in the door, but by itself being good looking will rarely be enough to seal the deal.
 

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A lot of guys seem to forget that swagger and attitude are a major part of attraction for women. I always laugh when I see threads insisting that you need to start dressing like this and wearing your hair like that because if you don't have the attitude to back it up then you're just wasting your time and money.

In the last couple years I've had much more success with women than before and I hardly changed a thing about my appearance. What I changed most is how I talk to women and how I carry myself around them.
 

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Zerro said:
A lot of guys seem to forget that swagger and attitude are a major part of attraction for women. I always laugh when I see threads insisting that you need to start dressing like this and wearing your hair like that because if you don't have the attitude to back it up then you're just wasting your time and money.

In the last couple years I've had much more success with women than before and I hardly changed a thing about my appearance. What I changed most is how I talk to women and how I carry myself around them.
How did you do that though? Think it's easier to change what you say, etc but seems like changing your overall demeanour would be hard. I mean posture, body language, etc. All that non verbal communication stuff.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I pretty much dress like a bro. Hoodies, sports tees, cargo shorts or jeans, shell toe sneaks, white hat, and sunglasses. I'm a very weird dude in my natural state, dressing more conventional helps alot.

The way I dress has never made or broken my ability to get laid. I am, however, about a 5 or 6 in looks. With some personality and the ability to talk and flatter I can regularly score. If you are ugly, dressing up a bit more preppy or even a suit would help immensely.
 

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iwanttofight said:
What is the difference between swagger and attitude?
The way I see it:
  • Attitude is something that can be separate of body language. You can have the same attitude whether you are in front of the person, talking to them on the phone, texting them, or posting here on the internet. It doesn't require physical presence.
  • Swagger is all about physical presence as it is mostly body language.

Feel free to differ.
 
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