"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Let us talk about looks.

Looks certainly help you to get noticed....


That is it, gentlemen. This is the only point that good looks give you, remember that game is not about looks, it is about the character. If you are an uneducated lad who has no enthusiastic drive, no ambition in life YOU HAVE NO GAME. You could be the most beautiful guy out there and bore people to death with monotone speech and self-centered stories.

Be humble, don't look too good - you are not a girl.

Keep yourself in shape, this will teach you to have discipline. Don't get shredded just because you want to please the ladies because self-esteem is built on internal beliefs and not external values.

Respect yourself, be happy with the looks you have. BE THE MAN YOU ARE and leave pretty faces to girls.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dutchmaster

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Looks certainly help confidence though. And confidence is everything.
 

Yo'Mama

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Yeah this is the difference between what looks mean for guys and what looks mean for girls. If a girl is hot she would have to do something totally f*cking stupid or have some horrible personality trait, habit, etc to put a guy off. The hotness would likely trumps everything.

If you're a good looking guy it will get your foot in the door, but by itself being good looking will rarely be enough to seal the deal.
 

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A lot of guys seem to forget that swagger and attitude are a major part of attraction for women. I always laugh when I see threads insisting that you need to start dressing like this and wearing your hair like that because if you don't have the attitude to back it up then you're just wasting your time and money.

In the last couple years I've had much more success with women than before and I hardly changed a thing about my appearance. What I changed most is how I talk to women and how I carry myself around them.
 

Yo'Mama

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Zerro said:
A lot of guys seem to forget that swagger and attitude are a major part of attraction for women. I always laugh when I see threads insisting that you need to start dressing like this and wearing your hair like that because if you don't have the attitude to back it up then you're just wasting your time and money.

In the last couple years I've had much more success with women than before and I hardly changed a thing about my appearance. What I changed most is how I talk to women and how I carry myself around them.
How did you do that though? Think it's easier to change what you say, etc but seems like changing your overall demeanour would be hard. I mean posture, body language, etc. All that non verbal communication stuff.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I pretty much dress like a bro. Hoodies, sports tees, cargo shorts or jeans, shell toe sneaks, white hat, and sunglasses. I'm a very weird dude in my natural state, dressing more conventional helps alot.

The way I dress has never made or broken my ability to get laid. I am, however, about a 5 or 6 in looks. With some personality and the ability to talk and flatter I can regularly score. If you are ugly, dressing up a bit more preppy or even a suit would help immensely.
 

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iwanttofight said:
What is the difference between swagger and attitude?
The way I see it:
  • Attitude is something that can be separate of body language. You can have the same attitude whether you are in front of the person, talking to them on the phone, texting them, or posting here on the internet. It doesn't require physical presence.
  • Swagger is all about physical presence as it is mostly body language.

Feel free to differ.
 
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