Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Imusculine

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Let us talk about looks.

Looks certainly help you to get noticed....


That is it, gentlemen. This is the only point that good looks give you, remember that game is not about looks, it is about the character. If you are an uneducated lad who has no enthusiastic drive, no ambition in life YOU HAVE NO GAME. You could be the most beautiful guy out there and bore people to death with monotone speech and self-centered stories.

Be humble, don't look too good - you are not a girl.

Keep yourself in shape, this will teach you to have discipline. Don't get shredded just because you want to please the ladies because self-esteem is built on internal beliefs and not external values.

Respect yourself, be happy with the looks you have. BE THE MAN YOU ARE and leave pretty faces to girls.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dutchmaster

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Looks certainly help confidence though. And confidence is everything.
 

Yo'Mama

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Yeah this is the difference between what looks mean for guys and what looks mean for girls. If a girl is hot she would have to do something totally f*cking stupid or have some horrible personality trait, habit, etc to put a guy off. The hotness would likely trumps everything.

If you're a good looking guy it will get your foot in the door, but by itself being good looking will rarely be enough to seal the deal.
 

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A lot of guys seem to forget that swagger and attitude are a major part of attraction for women. I always laugh when I see threads insisting that you need to start dressing like this and wearing your hair like that because if you don't have the attitude to back it up then you're just wasting your time and money.

In the last couple years I've had much more success with women than before and I hardly changed a thing about my appearance. What I changed most is how I talk to women and how I carry myself around them.
 

Yo'Mama

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Zerro said:
A lot of guys seem to forget that swagger and attitude are a major part of attraction for women. I always laugh when I see threads insisting that you need to start dressing like this and wearing your hair like that because if you don't have the attitude to back it up then you're just wasting your time and money.

In the last couple years I've had much more success with women than before and I hardly changed a thing about my appearance. What I changed most is how I talk to women and how I carry myself around them.
How did you do that though? Think it's easier to change what you say, etc but seems like changing your overall demeanour would be hard. I mean posture, body language, etc. All that non verbal communication stuff.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I pretty much dress like a bro. Hoodies, sports tees, cargo shorts or jeans, shell toe sneaks, white hat, and sunglasses. I'm a very weird dude in my natural state, dressing more conventional helps alot.

The way I dress has never made or broken my ability to get laid. I am, however, about a 5 or 6 in looks. With some personality and the ability to talk and flatter I can regularly score. If you are ugly, dressing up a bit more preppy or even a suit would help immensely.
 

Zerro

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iwanttofight said:
What is the difference between swagger and attitude?
The way I see it:
  • Attitude is something that can be separate of body language. You can have the same attitude whether you are in front of the person, talking to them on the phone, texting them, or posting here on the internet. It doesn't require physical presence.
  • Swagger is all about physical presence as it is mostly body language.

Feel free to differ.
 
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