"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PRETEND YOU ARE A MENTAL CASE( cognitive psych !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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you re scared of approaching women scared of what they might to you
do the ALBERT ELLIS SHAME EXERCICES I DID AND I BUSTED MY FEAR OF WOMEN FOR EVER

Imagine being in the elvator and calling the numbers out loud

on the street PRETEND YOU VE JUST BEEN RELEASED FROM THE LOONY BIN
' sorry sir i ve been released from the mental home could you tell me what day it is?
DO IT WITH 5 DIFFERENT PEOPLE EACH DAY FOR 2 WEEKS


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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are you retarded??

ALPHAROMEO said:
you re scared of approaching women scared of what they might to you
do the ALBERT ELLIS SHAME EXERCICES I DID AND I BUSTED MY FEAR OF WOMEN FOR EVER

Imagine being in the elvator and calling the numbers out loud

on the street PRETEND YOU VE JUST BEEN RELEASED FROM THE LOONY BIN
' sorry sir i ve been released from the mental home could you tell me what day it is?
DO IT WITH 5 DIFFERENT PEOPLE EACH DAY FOR 2 WEEKS


Check out ALBERT ELLIS shame exercises on GOOGLE
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seriously dude What the **** is wrong with you..anybody who actually believes this bull**** exercise will work deserves to be in the mental home. Are you ****ing insanse?? you continoulsy pollute this forum with your pseudo pshysology bull****.are you a troll or just a moron?What is your end game here? You create thread after thread spweing the same vile bullcrap under the guise of pyhsocology. You created a thread in the mature men forum and you didnt even have the decency much less the balls to come defend yourself after i called you out on your POS post. DUDE IF YOU DONT HAVE CONSTRUCTIVE ADVICE TO OFFER THE GUYS ON THIS FORUM, DO EVERYONE A FAVOUR AND STFU
if you want to get rid of your approach anxiety u do that by interacting with people like a rational human being. you do this by making small talk with everybody u meet. talk about the weather, talk abt sports, politics anything. Acting like a nutcase is counterproductive and only serve to repel people from you, worse case senario you get security called on you. what do u think will happen to someone with approach aniety who get the cops called on him for acting like an idiot
 
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ALPHAROMEO said:
you re scared of approaching women scared of what they might to you
do the ALBERT ELLIS SHAME EXERCICES I DID AND I BUSTED MY FEAR OF WOMEN FOR EVER

Imagine being in the elvator and calling the numbers out loud

on the street PRETEND YOU VE JUST BEEN RELEASED FROM THE LOONY BIN
' sorry sir i ve been released from the mental home could you tell me what day it is?
DO IT WITH 5 DIFFERENT PEOPLE EACH DAY FOR 2 WEEKS


Check out ALBERT ELLIS shame exercises on GOOGLE
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You are my favorite poster on SS, don't ever change!
 
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And some people don't need to pretend.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've heard of these exercises, they are supposed to be a way to get rid of social anxiety. The idea is if you can go out and do all these outlandish things without getting embarassed, you've been desensitized enough that you won't be afraid of approaching or normal social situations. It's not that different from going out and collecting 100 rejections really.

I think RSD may even have used some variations on this idea.
 
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cognitive psychology ( albert ellis aaron beck mart seligman ) has all the answers to picking up women

ELLIS S FAMOUS BOOK " the modern man " talks about using the street as the best pick up environnement how yo bust fear etc

the book was written in 1964 20 YEARS BEFORE ross jeffreys started raving about pick up
 
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