"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PRETEND YOU ARE A MENTAL CASE( cognitive psych !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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you re scared of approaching women scared of what they might to you
do the ALBERT ELLIS SHAME EXERCICES I DID AND I BUSTED MY FEAR OF WOMEN FOR EVER

Imagine being in the elvator and calling the numbers out loud

on the street PRETEND YOU VE JUST BEEN RELEASED FROM THE LOONY BIN
' sorry sir i ve been released from the mental home could you tell me what day it is?
DO IT WITH 5 DIFFERENT PEOPLE EACH DAY FOR 2 WEEKS


Check out ALBERT ELLIS shame exercises on GOOGLE
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are you retarded??

ALPHAROMEO said:
you re scared of approaching women scared of what they might to you
do the ALBERT ELLIS SHAME EXERCICES I DID AND I BUSTED MY FEAR OF WOMEN FOR EVER

Imagine being in the elvator and calling the numbers out loud

on the street PRETEND YOU VE JUST BEEN RELEASED FROM THE LOONY BIN
' sorry sir i ve been released from the mental home could you tell me what day it is?
DO IT WITH 5 DIFFERENT PEOPLE EACH DAY FOR 2 WEEKS


Check out ALBERT ELLIS shame exercises on GOOGLE
seriously dude What the **** is wrong with you..anybody who actually believes this bull**** exercise will work deserves to be in the mental home. Are you ****ing insanse?? you continoulsy pollute this forum with your pseudo pshysology bull****.are you a troll or just a moron?What is your end game here? You create thread after thread spweing the same vile bullcrap under the guise of pyhsocology. You created a thread in the mature men forum and you didnt even have the decency much less the balls to come defend yourself after i called you out on your POS post. DUDE IF YOU DONT HAVE CONSTRUCTIVE ADVICE TO OFFER THE GUYS ON THIS FORUM, DO EVERYONE A FAVOUR AND STFU
if you want to get rid of your approach anxiety u do that by interacting with people like a rational human being. you do this by making small talk with everybody u meet. talk about the weather, talk abt sports, politics anything. Acting like a nutcase is counterproductive and only serve to repel people from you, worse case senario you get security called on you. what do u think will happen to someone with approach aniety who get the cops called on him for acting like an idiot
 

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ALPHAROMEO said:
you re scared of approaching women scared of what they might to you
do the ALBERT ELLIS SHAME EXERCICES I DID AND I BUSTED MY FEAR OF WOMEN FOR EVER

Imagine being in the elvator and calling the numbers out loud

on the street PRETEND YOU VE JUST BEEN RELEASED FROM THE LOONY BIN
' sorry sir i ve been released from the mental home could you tell me what day it is?
DO IT WITH 5 DIFFERENT PEOPLE EACH DAY FOR 2 WEEKS


Check out ALBERT ELLIS shame exercises on GOOGLE

You are my favorite poster on SS, don't ever change!
 

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And some people don't need to pretend.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've heard of these exercises, they are supposed to be a way to get rid of social anxiety. The idea is if you can go out and do all these outlandish things without getting embarassed, you've been desensitized enough that you won't be afraid of approaching or normal social situations. It's not that different from going out and collecting 100 rejections really.

I think RSD may even have used some variations on this idea.
 

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cognitive psychology ( albert ellis aaron beck mart seligman ) has all the answers to picking up women

ELLIS S FAMOUS BOOK " the modern man " talks about using the street as the best pick up environnement how yo bust fear etc

the book was written in 1964 20 YEARS BEFORE ross jeffreys started raving about pick up
 
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