"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Present or No?

ChenCristos

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I've been dating this girl for about 7 months and she is a headcase for sure.. Our relationship has seriously gone down the drain and I wanna break up with her and I'm sure shes the same..everyone wants me to keep her around as an escort to social events and social proof but I'm sick of her AW behavior. We havent chilled in 2 weeks.. we were supposed to chill yesterday but I didnt call her till a little late and she said she was shopping and wasn't going to be coming out in the evening with me ( you domb b1tch!) but I was cool I knew I'd still have a good time (check my FR)- her birthday is tuesday and I'm wondering if I should buy her some cheap present
Heres my thinking
Buy her present then break up with her (no ill feelings)
Don't buy her **** cause doesn't deserve it even though we dated for 7 months...
what you guys think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ajax

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I haven't read your FR but I'd by her a symbolic gift and then break up with her the day after her birthday. No need to be an ******* because you don't fit well together.
 

ChenCristos

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true, I think thats a good idea- at least there wouldnt be any bridge burning so she wont cblock in th future
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sorry, what does "FR" mean? I'm not caught up in my internet lingo, I haven't been here consistently in a while. What's up ChenCristos, I got your PM, and I'm here to help out however I can.
 
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Kill her before her birthday and your problem is solved!!!!
 
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